代溝英語作文3篇
代溝英語作文1
Many people all say "three years old, a generation gap", if there is a generation gap between two people, thought the difference is very big, subject also can not pull together, not to mention what the "heart".
But in my opinion, it seems that is not the case.
Take the parents, many people think we are worth adolescence, don't want to talk with your parents.Although sometimes argue with their parents shouted: "there is a gap really cannot communicate!"But wait until the in the mind is calm, I prefer to talk to them.I like to share with them around the fun, complain about some useless things, they will and I share the fun in working, unit, we will also crazy, laughing from time to time, we also sometimes for a certain behavior or things in a debate on the dining table...These, is sweet and happy.
To relatives, for one, many people think that would be no words don't talk about between brothers and sisters.But for my cousin, I am very "weak".
I want to discuss with him on some music, and he tell me the things on the military.He asked me: "do you know XXX officer?"I shook his head, he asked: "do you know some kind of gun?"I shook his head, he will ask: "do you know some ships?"I continued to shake head.He is helpless, more helpless, I feel want to find a topic to chat all can't find it.I tried to call him to listen to some I think good songs, he cried "ah" to keep shake head, sometimes I even in thought, the grade that I have so bad?Germany's so-and-so to listen before he said, I feel the people seem to be poured a pot of cold water.He was disappointed, I am more disappointed.Only two years, what great generation gap?
"Generation gap" is not a precise definition, but according to the interest in personality between people.May even classmate, also there is the so-called "generation gap"!So might as well open the heart window, listen to the opinions of others, will also get a lot of.
代溝英語作文2
Mother doesn't like me some entertainment shows like, but never against it.Only after I see it with a straight face, make my puzzling, overwhelmed.
On a weekend night, I see hope English thought, anyway, today is the weekend, watching watching TV has nothing to do at all.Then press the remote control, change the channel.When I change to hunan, was immediately impressed by the content of the inside, how it can be mom?I jumped off the couch, like a thief crept gently walked to the room maid, for fear that mom is asleep and I was awakened by and break into a furious rage.In the mother's room, he found the ha!Mom is asleep.In my heart a piece of rock falls, long heaved a sigh of relief, feel at ease ground to watch the TV."Happy camp" is too good, not for a moment, I smiled turned upside down, no attention paid to disturb my mother was standing by me in the corner and looked at me.
Wait me smile to abdominal pain, lost my voice, and discovered the corner of the mouth dry mom staring at me like staring at an enemy, that twinkle at ordinary times, terror, and now more terrorist eyes to my uniform, let I fear, panic."You gave me in the eyes of the master issued orders to me, I had to obediently followed in her mother.
"From then on, I won't allow you to have any contact with" entertainment variety show ", including the idol drama!"Mother said on staring at me.Under such harsh glare who dared to protest?I dare not, anyway, this is the generation gap between *s and children.
In fact, no need any *s against our watch variety shows, because this is our the best comfort in a week of hard study.Although schools have implemented "burden", many parents are therefore implemented "plus negative", we shoulder the burden heavier.
Perhaps this is the generation gap.
代溝英語作文3
Nowadays, there is often a lack of understanding between parents and children. Children always complain that their parents are out of date, while parents can’t approve of what their children say and do. Thus, a big generation gap is formed.
如今,往往是缺乏了解父母與子女之間。孩子們總是抱怨他們的父母都是過時(shí)的,而父母并不贊同他們的孩子說的和做的。因此,形成一個(gè)大的代溝。
The gap remains wide for many reasons. Children want to be free to choose their own friends, select their own classes in school, plan their own future, earn and spend their own money, and generally run their own life in a more independent way than many parents allow. Also, young children wish to be understood by their parents, but most parents don’t quite understand their children. They regard it as their responsibility to teach their offspring traditional beliefs. They want them to be obedient and do well in school. Therefore, misunderstanding often arise from parents’ tendency to interfere in children’s daily activities.
產(chǎn)生代溝的原因有很多。孩子們想要**的選擇自己的朋友,選擇在學(xué)校自己的班級(jí),規(guī)劃自己的未來,自己掙錢自己花,和一般運(yùn)行自己的更**的生活方式比父母允許的。同時(shí),年輕的孩子們希望能夠得到父母的,但大多數(shù)父母不太了解他們的孩子。他們認(rèn)為這是他們教他們的`后代的傳統(tǒng)信仰的責(zé)任。他們想讓他們聽話,在學(xué)校做得很好。因此,誤解往往從父母傾向于干涉孩子的日常活動(dòng)。
In my opinion, most problems between parents and children could be solved by joint efforts of both sides to enhance mutual understanding.
在我看來,父母和子女間的代溝問題可以通過雙方的共同努力,增進(jìn)相互理解的解決。
代溝英語作文3篇擴(kuò)展閱讀
代溝英語作文3篇(擴(kuò)展1)
——代溝的英語作文3篇
代溝的英語作文1
How to Bridge the Generation Gap?
The generation gap is unavoidable in almost every family, which brings about a number of conflicts in a family. In my opinion, to limit the bad effects of the generation gap, each family should use the following three methods:
First of all, it is important that family members discuss openly about their pleasures or sadness in childhood in family gatherings. This activity does not only create a close relationship but also help build up understanding among all members. For instance, once children are aware that their grandparents and even their parents did not have a good upbringing during their hard childhood, they will stop plaining about the previous generations’ obsoleteness. In the meantime, once old people realize young people are nurtured in a new modern way, it is easy for them to be tolerant of young people’s new habits or hobbies.
Secondly, people of each generation should not develop a very high feeling about themselves. In order to do that, they should not think that they are the only right people in their family because each person has his or her own limitations. Teenagers would realize that their parents have to struggle with pain to support them financially, and they would stop rebelling their strictness. Parents would realize that their children’s new style does no harm to their studies and stop imposing their own unsuitable standards on their children.
Finally, the generation gap and its bad effects can be limited if all members cooperate to build up a close-knit family relationship and a harmonious atmosphere in which they are open and tolerant of each other. I strongly believe that each family, by doing that, can enjoy a cozy atmosphere with minimum interference by the generation gap.
如何讓彌合代溝?
大部分的家庭免不了存在代溝,代溝給一個(gè)家庭帶來很多沖突。我認(rèn)為,為了**代溝的不良影響,每個(gè)家庭都就應(yīng)嘗試以下方法:
首先,在家庭聚會(huì)的時(shí)候,家庭成員公開討論自我的童年時(shí)期的快樂或悲傷是很重要的。這一活動(dòng)不僅僅營(yíng)造一種緊密的關(guān)系而且能夠幫忙建立家庭成員之間的相互理解。比如說,一旦孩子們意識(shí)到他們的爺爺奶奶甚至是爸爸媽媽在艱苦的童年時(shí)期沒有很好的成長(zhǎng),他們就會(huì)停止抱怨上一代人的陳舊思想。同時(shí),一旦老一輩人意識(shí)到年輕人是在一種新的現(xiàn)代方式下成長(zhǎng),他們就很容易理解年輕人的習(xí)慣和愛好。
其次,每一代人都不就應(yīng)高估自我。為此,他們不就應(yīng)認(rèn)為他們是家里唯一對(duì)的人,因?yàn)槊總(gè)人都有自我的極限。青少年就應(yīng)意識(shí)到,他們的父母務(wù)必與困苦**給他們帶給經(jīng)濟(jì)上的**,他們就會(huì)停止反抗父母的嚴(yán)厲。父母也就應(yīng)意識(shí)到,孩子們的新風(fēng)格不會(huì)影響學(xué)習(xí),從而停止把自我不適宜的吧標(biāo)準(zhǔn)強(qiáng)加在孩子身上。
最后,如果所有的成員合作起來去建立一個(gè)關(guān)系緊密的家庭關(guān)系以及能夠坦誠(chéng)和互相容忍融洽的氛圍,代溝及其不良影響就能夠得到限制。我堅(jiān)信,透過這樣做,每個(gè)家庭都能享有一個(gè)代溝干擾最小的舒適氛圍。
代溝的英語作文2
Nowadays, the problems of generation gap bee more and more serious. The poor relationship between parents and their children is very mon. Are these problems caused by the busy parents? Or, do the harsh family rules affect the relationship of parents and children?
Firstly, in most of the families in China both of the parents have to go out for work in order to earn more money to provide better environment for their lovely children. Unfortunately, this causes the rare munication between them and theft children, since these parents always take rest during leisure time. These parents and children cannot know dee* about each other and friction will appear. Secondly, parents who ask their children to be absolutely obedient is also one of the grave causes of the generation gap between them! They do not try to municate with their children as their equals. Thus, misinterpretation of them may easily occur.
To solve these problems, the busy parents should sacrifice their spare time to municate with their children actively and friendly to improve their relation. At the same time, they can also observe their childrens behavior at the same time in order to understand heir childrens personality as it can reduce the quarrel between them. Besides that, the parents should try to give up their absolute power in family so as lo make their children feel free to chat with them.
代溝的英語作文3
代溝之我見My View on Generation Gap
According to the variety of social background, personal experience and personal emotion, differernt people have different opinions towards things. Thus, there is no doubt that generation gap exists everywhere. We always find that there are big differences between us and the old generation. We always regard the old are outdated, while they think us are crazy. They can’t bear the dress we like, the fashion we pursue or even our childish thinking. Instead, we could put up with their standpat thingking and their “feudal rulers”. Thus, the generation gap bees more and more obvious and serious. However, why don’t we realize that opinions can be changed, while people can’t. So, we can think in an other way, learn to accept. It is certain that we can narrow the generation gap to live a more harmonious life.
由于社會(huì)背景,個(gè)人的經(jīng)歷和個(gè)人情感的不一樣,不一樣的人對(duì)事情有不一樣的看法。因此,毫無疑問代溝隨處可見。 我們總是發(fā)現(xiàn)我們和老一代之間有很大的差異。我們總是認(rèn)為他們思想守舊,而他們卻覺得我們瘋狂。他們不能忍受我們喜歡的衣服,我們追求的時(shí)尚甚至是我們幼稚的思維方式。相反,我們覺得他們思想保守,“封建**”。因此,代溝越來越明顯和嚴(yán)重。但是,為什么我們沒有意識(shí)到想法是能夠改變的,而人卻是不能夠的。所以,我們能夠嘗試換位思考,學(xué)會(huì)去理解。能夠肯定的是,我們能夠縮小代溝過上更**的生活。
代溝英語作文3篇(擴(kuò)展2)
——代溝之我見英語作文3篇
代溝之我見英語作文1
A few years ago it was fashionable to speak of a generation gap. Parents complained that children didn't show them proper respect and obedience, while children complained that their parents didn't understand them at all. Many critics argue that it is built into the fabric of our society.
One cause of the generation gap is the opportunity that young people have to choose their own life. In traditional socieries, children live in the same area as their parents, marry people their parents know and approve of, and often continue the family occupation. In our society, people often move out of the home at an early age, marry or live with people their parents have never met, and choose occupations that are rather different.
In our upwardly mobile society, parents often expect their children to be better than them. However, these ambitions for their children are another cause of the pision between them. Often they discover that they have very little in common.
Finally, the speed of change in our society is another cause of it. In a traditional culture, people are valued for their wisdom, but in our society the knowledge of a lifetime may become out of date. The young and the old seem to live in two very different worlds, separated by different skills and abilities.
No doubt, the generation gap will continue to be a feature of our life for some time to come. Its causes are rooted in the freedoms and opportunities of our society, and in the rapid pace at which society changes.
【譯文】
幾年前,代溝是一個(gè)非常流行的詞。父母抱怨孩子對(duì)他們沒有應(yīng)有的尊重和服從;而孩子們卻抱怨父母根本不理解他們。很多批評(píng)家指出,這成為了我們社會(huì)結(jié)構(gòu)的組成部分。
造成代溝的原因之一,是現(xiàn)在年輕人對(duì)自己的生活有了更多的機(jī)會(huì)進(jìn)行選擇。傳統(tǒng)的社會(huì)里,孩子和他們的父母生活在同一個(gè)地方,與父母認(rèn)識(shí)并認(rèn)可的人結(jié)婚,常常幾代人做著同樣的工作。而在現(xiàn)代的社會(huì)中,人們年輕時(shí)就離開家,他們的結(jié)婚對(duì)象可能父母從來沒見過,他們選擇的職業(yè)也與祖輩大相徑庭。
在這個(gè)人往高處發(fā)展的社會(huì),父母總是盼望著孩子能比自己過得好。然而這種對(duì)孩子的期望也是造成他們之間分歧的另一個(gè)原因。其結(jié)果常常是發(fā)現(xiàn)父母和孩子之間共同之處很少。
最后,現(xiàn)代社會(huì)的飛速變化也是形成代溝的一個(gè)原因。傳統(tǒng)社會(huì)里,人們往往以智慧來衡量一個(gè)人。而現(xiàn)在,一種知識(shí)用一生的觀點(diǎn)已經(jīng)過時(shí)了。不同的`技術(shù),不同的能力,將年輕人和年長(zhǎng)的人劃入兩個(gè)完全不同的世界。
毫無疑問,在今后相當(dāng)一段時(shí)間里,代溝將會(huì)繼續(xù)成為我們生活的一個(gè)特征。它產(chǎn)生的原因源于社會(huì)的**和選擇,源于社會(huì)日新月異的快速發(fā)展。
代溝之我見英語作文2
In the modern socienty,there is misunderstanding between parents and their children.The parents always consider that their children do the wrong things, and their children always complain, their parents don't understand them,which leads to the generation gap.
There are two reasons. First the young man live in different environments from their parents', so they alway have different ideas aboutproblems. Secondly the parents alway prevent their children from doing their favourite things which often cause a fight.
I think the generation gap can be handled if the parents and childrentry their best. They can have open talks and tell ideas to each other. They should realize every generation have their own strong and weak points.Only in this way,a better relationship will be built.
代溝之我見英語作文3
Nowadays,many young people have new ideas which are different from their parents. They argue even fight with their parents from time to time only because they wouldn’t like to do what their parents want to. In my opinions, children and their parents should understand and respect each other, so There are many reasons for this phenomenon. Firstly, young people have different lifestyle, different education and different friends from their parents, different age will shape a new generation. Secondly, the young are still too young to face the society but they don’t realize, so they often think whatever they do is right, which leads them not listen to their parents’ some useful and valuable advice. Finally, some parents only order children to do something rather than discuss with them.
As far as I’m concern, everybody should join hands to solve this problem. Both sides should respect the other, when parents have more communications with the young, many conflicts will not happen. Similarly,if children can understand their parents’ original intention,they will not always opposite their parents。
代溝英語作文3篇(擴(kuò)展3)
——父母代溝英語作文 (菁選3篇)
父母代溝英語作文1
According to the variety of social background, personal experience and personal emotion, differernt people have different opinions towards things. Thus, there is no doubt that generation gap exists everywhere. We always find that there are big differences between us and the old generation. We always regard the old are outdated, while they think us are crazy. They can’t bear the dress we like, the fashion we pursue or even our childish thinking. Instead, we could put up with their standpat thingking and their “feudal rulers”. Thus, the generation gap becomes more and more obvious and serious. However, why don’t we realize that opinions can be changed, while people can’t. So, we can think in an other way, learn to accept. It is certain that we can narrow the generation gap to live a more harmonious life.
由于社會(huì)背景,個(gè)人的經(jīng)歷和個(gè)人情感的不同,不同的人對(duì)事情有不同的看法。因此,毫無疑問代溝隨處可見。 我們總是發(fā)現(xiàn)我們和老一代之間有很大的差異。我們總是認(rèn)為他們思想守舊,而他們卻覺得我們瘋狂。他們不能忍受我們喜歡的衣服,我們追求的時(shí)尚甚至是我們幼稚的思維方式。相反,我們覺得他們思想保守,“封建**”。因此,代溝越來越明顯和嚴(yán)重。但是,為什么我們沒有意識(shí)到想法是可以改變的,而人卻是不可以的。所以,我們可以嘗試換位思考,學(xué)會(huì)去接受?梢钥隙ǖ氖,我們可以縮小代溝過上更**的生活。
父母代溝英語作文2
Nowadays, there is often a lack of understanding between parents and children. Children always complain that their parents are out of date, while parents can’t approve of what their children say and do. Thus, a big generation gap is formed.
如今,往往是缺乏了解父母與子女之間。孩子們總是抱怨他們的父母都是過時(shí)的,而父母并不贊同他們的孩子說的和做的。因此,形成一個(gè)大的代溝。
The gap remains wide for many reasons. Children want to be free to choose their own friends, select their own classes in school, plan their own future, earn and spend their own money, and generally run their own life in a more independent way than many parents allow. Also, young children wish to be understood by their parents, but most parents don’t quite understand their children. They regard it as their responsibility to teach their offspring traditional beliefs. They want them to be obedient and do well in school. Therefore, misunderstanding often arise from parents’ tendency to interfere in children’s daily activities.
產(chǎn)生代溝的原因有很多。孩子們想要**的選擇自己的朋友,選擇在學(xué)校自己的班級(jí),規(guī)劃自己的未來,自己掙錢自己花,和一般運(yùn)行自己的更**的生活方式比父母允許的。同時(shí),年輕的孩子們希望能夠得到父母的,但大多數(shù)父母不太了解他們的孩子。他們認(rèn)為這是他們教他們的后代的傳統(tǒng)信仰的責(zé)任。他們想讓他們聽話,在學(xué)校做得很好。因此,誤解往往從父母傾向于干涉孩子的日;顒(dòng)。
In my opinion, most problems between parents and children could be solved by joint efforts of both sides to enhance mutual understanding.
在我看來,父母和子女間的代溝問題可以通過雙方的共同努力,增進(jìn)相互理解的'解決。
父母代溝英語作文3
Every new generation is different from the one that preceded it . Today the difference is very marked indeed.
Old people are always saying that the young are not what they were . The same comment is made from generation to generation and it is always true . It has never been truer than it is today . The young are better educated . They have a lot more money to spend and enjoy more freedom . They grow up quickly and are not so dependent on their parents . They think more of themselves and do not blindly accept the idea of their elders . Even which the older generation remembers vividly are nothing more than past history .
Just look at the teenage girls who scream hysterically over the pop stars and the teenage boys who copy the stars and grow their hair long and are no longer ashamed of wearing “pretty”clothes , are sim* breaking through the Chinese traditional reserve and fear of showing their feelings . what is more, nowadays most boys and girls are good companions and some of them even fall in“puppy love .”a lot of older people sigh and say ,“we did not use to do like this .”
Do you think the older people’s criticism stems from jealousy just because they could not or did not behave in the same way when they were young ?
代溝英語作文3篇(擴(kuò)展4)
——父母與子女之間的代溝作文10篇
父母與子女之間的代溝作文1
在信息、科技發(fā)達(dá)的今天,兒女與父母之間的代溝也越來越深,越來越大。如今父母與兒女之間的“代溝”問題成了家庭間的問題之一。并且也變得越來越主要的問題之一。
材料三中,父母與兒女之間發(fā)生的矛盾就是因?yàn)榇鷾隙鸬,因(yàn)榇鷾希改覆焕斫庾约,自己不聽父母的勸告,因此就發(fā)生矛盾,當(dāng)今最好的縮小代溝的方法便是與父母交流了,正如材料一中所說到的,做子女的得在日常中觸摸父母的性格。然后承他們的愛做到自己的心安。的確,兒女是應(yīng)在生活中多了解父母,多與父母溝通,去做他們喜歡的事。這樣家里的矛盾就會(huì)更小一點(diǎn),更少一點(diǎn)。因此,與父母溝通交流成了縮小兒女與父母之間的代溝的方法之一。
而今,越來越多的學(xué)生的人生已經(jīng)被父母安排的滿滿的,似乎父母已經(jīng)為他們鋪好道路只要他們走下去。但就是因?yàn)槿绱耍芏鄬W(xué)生似乎過的并不充實(shí),并不快樂。在《熊出沒奇幻空間》中的反派男人物,他從小就沒有童年,每天都是各種培訓(xùn)班:奧賽,物理,化學(xué),美術(shù)、鋼琴……甚至還在培訓(xùn)過程中失去了他最好的朋友--薛定鍔,正因?yàn)楦改附o孩子定排好了路程,導(dǎo)致代溝越來越大,其實(shí)兒女應(yīng)多和父母出去散步,談?wù)摳鞣N事情,過不了多久我們就會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn),父母與孩子之間的代溝變小了。 其實(shí),很多時(shí)候并不是因?yàn)樽约翰宦爠窀,也并不是因(yàn)楦改覆焕斫庾约,而是?duì)方?jīng)]能夠徹底地理解對(duì)方。在當(dāng)今社會(huì),有百分之八十以上的工作都和理科有關(guān),因此在選科時(shí),父母是為了我們將來能夠更好的就業(yè)的基礎(chǔ)上去讓我們選理,但對(duì)于有些人來講選擇理科并不是自己的意愿,可能自已喜歡文科,這時(shí)父母與兒女之間的代溝就暴露出來,父母希望孩子能有個(gè)好工作,而兒女希望父母尊重自己的意見,只要多多交流,互相理解,就是可以達(dá)到雙方和解的情況。 現(xiàn)在,縮小兒女與父母之間的代溝非常有必要,但行動(dòng)其實(shí)在兒女,兒女應(yīng)該更要懂得父母的心思。這樣兒女與父母之間的代溝才有機(jī)會(huì)變小。
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最近和爸爸鬧的總是不怎么愉快,爸爸自己悶悶地說:“我知道,你大了,我們有與父母代溝作文了,你大了,只和媽好!蔽铱梢悦黠@的聽出你語氣里有一份講不好使失望,是嫉妒還是對(duì)自己的不滿,總之,你難過,我痛心。
記得,我和你發(fā)生什么口角的時(shí)候,你總是發(fā)火或者說破什么關(guān)于與父母代溝作文的話,但是你可曾想過我啊,我難道真的認(rèn)為和你有與父母代溝作文了嗎?
每天和你晚上吃完飯了后,你總會(huì)拉著我的手,就像大手拉小手一樣。你會(huì)以一位家長(zhǎng)或是一位知己或很尊重的態(tài)度來和我聊天,其實(shí)每次我都裝出十分不樂意的樣子,但是我的心中認(rèn)為這是一段十分享受的時(shí)光,因?yàn)檫@個(gè)時(shí)候終于有一個(gè)人靜靜的聽我訴說,不論是東南西北或扯得更遠(yuǎn)的話題。
爸爸,你從來為什么只看見你對(duì)我的愛,卻看不見我對(duì)你的愛呢,你為什么總是希望自己一個(gè)人付出,總是不求回報(bào)。你知不知道當(dāng)你和我聊時(shí),你說過,你覺得現(xiàn)在生活沒什么意思,要不是我,的會(huì)離家遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)的,你知道我嘴上只是對(duì)你嗔怪,其實(shí)心里有多傷心嗎,你不管怎么樣,你始終是我的爸爸朋友。
爸爸,你怎么會(huì)知道,我為有你這樣一位爸爸而自豪,當(dāng)同學(xué)總是在抱怨爸爸不體諒他們但是我總是在心里偷偷笑哩,因?yàn)槲矣幸晃焕斫馕业陌职郑晃徊徽撌裁词露伎梢愿嬖V他,他會(huì)替我想辦法,他會(huì)在一個(gè)同齡人的角度上替我想辦法。我很感謝他。
但是,你在還沒有更深入的了解我,你就全盤否認(rèn)了我們還可以好好交流,你就說我長(zhǎng)大了,你就說我們有與父母代溝作文,其實(shí),如果真的有與父母代溝作文,只有我不能了解你,一定不會(huì)是我不愿和你交流,所以,我們之間永遠(yuǎn)沒有與父母代溝作文,爸爸,我是很愛你的,所有,我知道我們之間永遠(yuǎn)沒有與父母代溝作文。
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可能這個(gè)問題是很多家長(zhǎng)納悶的,為什么自己千方百計(jì)的想要和子女去交流,可他們還是有事要瞞著你呢?
呵呵,作為我們孩子來說,秘密只有同代的人能夠分享。
為什么呢?只有同代的人才知道現(xiàn)在最流行什么,什么才是我們NEED的,包括我們自己的一些私事。
我們不可能一有什么事情就跟大人們說,打個(gè)比方,一不小心喜歡上一個(gè)人。難道我們還跑回去跟大人們說嗎?
你認(rèn)為這個(gè)可能性大嗎? 大人一有什么事就窮追到底,認(rèn)為這樣是對(duì)的。其實(shí)是大錯(cuò)特錯(cuò)。我們最需要的是寬容。
但大人們總是認(rèn)為寬容就=放縱。如果不是大人們自己出了問題,我們會(huì)變壞嗎!
就象我的爸爸,他總是逼我學(xué)習(xí),不管什么時(shí)候,什么地點(diǎn),除了書就還是書,我不喜歡這樣。他還逼我列什么表啊。我不是機(jī)器人啊。為什么沒有**。
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代溝是兩代人不同的消費(fèi)觀念,生活觀念,認(rèn)知觀念等。媽媽和姥姥之間代溝的矛盾體現(xiàn)在購(gòu)物的價(jià)格和方式上。
媽媽是個(gè)購(gòu)物狂。大到冰箱彩電,小到針頭線腦。可以說,足不出戶就可以買到家里。方便了使用,而且媽媽總念叨:“網(wǎng)絡(luò)時(shí)代,就是個(gè)飛速發(fā)展的時(shí)代,網(wǎng)絡(luò)可以讓我們足不出戶,就可以走遍世界,了解個(gè)體的特產(chǎn),方便我們購(gòu)物。”
所以,家里的財(cái)政支出一概是媽媽說了算。媽**購(gòu)物愛好,也有交學(xué)費(fèi)的時(shí)候,只是她不說。快遞叔叔可樂壞了,不管是申通,圓通,天天等,我們小區(qū)那片的快遞員都是我們家的熟人,不僅認(rèn)識(shí)了媽媽,也認(rèn)識(shí)了我。
姥姥就不認(rèn)可媽**購(gòu)物觀。因?yàn)檫@件事,她們經(jīng)常吵架。
“你就是敗家,什么都買,你看看,家里的沒用的東西都是你買的,你說說,外面有個(gè)摟錢耙,家里得有個(gè)裝錢匣啊,你天天這樣花,多少錢夠花,為了孩子你存過多少錢……”
“你就是老觀念,現(xiàn)在都是信息時(shí)代了,哪有你那么多的老觀念,要學(xué)會(huì)享受,要學(xué)會(huì)提前消費(fèi)……”她們的爭(zhēng)吵總是爸爸這個(gè)和事佬來化解。
今天姥姥和媽媽又吵了起來,起因是媽媽說漏了嘴:“她買了一個(gè)鍋,花了5000”。話音剛落。姥姥就大吵:“再不在我家住了,氣也得氣死,這么敗家,掙多少夠花啊”姥姥說完,收拾起來東西,到舅舅家去住了。
我也知道姥姥是愛媽**,我更知道媽媽也是愛姥姥的,但是,消費(fèi)觀念的不同,使我們家爭(zhēng)吵不斷。這可能就是代溝的代價(jià)。
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好多人都說“三歲一代溝”,兩個(gè)人之間如果有了代溝,想法上差別很大,話題上也扯不到一塊兒,更不必說什么“心有靈犀”了。
但在我看來,似乎并非如此。
就拿父母來說,許多人都覺得我們正值青春期,不愿和父母交談。雖然有時(shí)候和父母爭(zhēng)論時(shí)嚷嚷著:“真的`是有代溝!根本無法交流!”可是等到心里*靜后,我還是愿意和他們交談。我喜歡和他們分享身邊的趣事,抱怨一些無謂的瑣事,他們也會(huì)與我分享工作、單位上的趣事,大家不時(shí)也會(huì)瘋瘋癲癲、哈哈大笑,我們有時(shí)也會(huì)針對(duì)某一種行為或事情在飯桌上展開一番討論……這些時(shí)候,是溫馨歡樂的。
再拿親戚之間來說,許多人覺得兄弟姐妹之間會(huì)無話不談。但對(duì)于我的堂哥,我很“無力”。
我想跟他討論一些音樂上的東西,他又跟我講軍事上的東西。他問我:“你明白某某軍官嗎”我搖頭,他又問:“你明白某種槍嗎”我搖頭,他再問:“你明白某種軍艦嗎”我繼續(xù)搖頭。他無奈,我更無奈,感覺想找個(gè)話題聊都找不到。我試著叫他去聽一些我認(rèn)為好聽的歌,他“呀呀”叫著直搖頭,有時(shí)候我甚至在想:我的品位有這么差嗎他卻說什么德國(guó)的某某軍歌才好聽,我感覺整個(gè)人好像被潑了一盆冷水。他失望,我更失望。只差兩年,代溝怎樣這么大
“代溝”并沒有一個(gè)確切的定義,而是根據(jù)人與人之間的興趣性格來決定的?赡芗词故峭嗤瑢W(xué),也會(huì)存在著所謂的“代溝”呢!所以不妨打開心窗,聽聽別人的想法,也會(huì)得到許多。
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本想00后的我們永遠(yuǎn)與父母存在著代溝,但是我發(fā)現(xiàn)我錯(cuò)了,因?yàn)槲疫有個(gè)代溝:是我的同桌。
我的同桌比我小一歲,難道不是越小的人對(duì)于網(wǎng)絡(luò)的認(rèn)識(shí)就越多嗎?為什么我感覺她就好像是80后的呢。因此我常常對(duì)她感到無語。如果說到幾個(gè)網(wǎng)絡(luò)語可能會(huì)想到?“嚇?biāo)缹殞毩恕?“無語”?“什么鬼”可是為什么她就不懂呢?有時(shí)候跟她對(duì)話感覺就好費(fèi)勁。所以我常說:“你out了”我們根本就是兩個(gè)世界的人。她的一次元方式跟我的異次元方式完全不同。有時(shí)我跟她弟弟說話都比跟她說話容易,難道就不經(jīng)常關(guān)注電腦里的**嗎?我曾經(jīng)測(cè)試過她一個(gè)問題,問她現(xiàn)在是第幾個(gè)世紀(jì),她說是20世紀(jì),這難道不是21世紀(jì)嗎?我認(rèn)為是的。
她沒有喜歡的明星,但有一個(gè)是追星族的同桌,追星都不能干染她,這是有多不愛關(guān)注明星,但是也不怪她,畢竟每個(gè)人的性格不同,喜好也就不同,好吧不怪她。她不追星族,所以對(duì)一切的明星都不關(guān)注,但是我總是感覺她歧視我,她總是對(duì)我說,追星有什么好的。我認(rèn)為沒什么不好,追自己的明星,就有了榜樣!我說,同桌啊,你怎么就不能理解我呢?為什么總是讓我感覺我們好像沒有共同語言呢,難道我們的共同話題就只有每天做的數(shù)學(xué)題;每天背的英語單詞;每天抄的語文筆記嗎,難道你不覺得這一天的校園生活很乏味嗎?就不能共同進(jìn)步嗎,哪怕是一丟丟啊同桌!在這里我想對(duì)你說:“請(qǐng)不要讓我們之間的距離那么遠(yuǎn),不然我這一年要怎么過下去呢?”
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時(shí)隔多年,好像這也很少能夠聽到代溝這兩個(gè)字,在學(xué)生時(shí)代,經(jīng)常能夠聽到代溝這兩個(gè)字的,一般指的是孩子和家長(zhǎng)之間的再想法啥的一些不同。
家長(zhǎng)認(rèn)為孩子的一些想法太過超前,孩子也認(rèn)為家長(zhǎng)的一些想法太過古板,于是就產(chǎn)生了代溝二字。
現(xiàn)在好像好多家長(zhǎng)也在努力的跟隨著孩子的腳步在進(jìn)步,以至于在生活中也很少能夠聽到代溝二字。
昨天想著說****的應(yīng)該給自己買一身新衣服,惦記了許久的牛仔連體衣,一直都沒有安排上。跟小妹發(fā)的幾個(gè)網(wǎng)絡(luò)上的圖片,都被小妹一一否定。不是說樣式不好看就是說質(zhì)量不好。
今天早上小妹也給自己發(fā)過來兩張網(wǎng)頁圖片,自己看了之后也覺得不好看。小妹也就感嘆說,兩個(gè)人之間的代溝太大了。沒辦法溝通,因?yàn)閾碛械膶徝酪稽c(diǎn)都不一樣。
想一下也是,自己和小妹隔了整整十年的時(shí)間,就按三年一個(gè)代溝來算,也真的是出現(xiàn)了三個(gè)半代溝,各種審美和想法不一樣也是可以理解的。
小妹說,那可咋整?存在即是合理,本來就沒有出生在同一個(gè)年代,有一些想法不同有代溝也是正常的。只是一兩件衣服而已,買自己喜歡的就可以了。
比代溝更加重要的事,我們能夠穿著自己喜歡的衣服,開開心心的做一家人愉快的相處,才是更加重要的事。
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夕陽如夢(mèng),朦朧迷幻;夕陽如一縷縷輕煙,縈繞在我的指尖。夕陽帶著我的目光,投到了你的身上。
夕陽下,你長(zhǎng)長(zhǎng)的發(fā)絲依然飛舞,你的眼神望向遠(yuǎn)方,露出一絲興奮。而我低下頭,思緒滿懷。氣氛有一些凝重,你我都無話可說。只有”嘎吱“的自行車在我們的騎行下喘息著。我不想窒息在這沉重的氣氛中,便開了口:”你知道嗎?前兩天又有一架飛機(jī)掉海里去了。又是亞航。打撈了幾具尸體了,很可怕!蹦戕D(zhuǎn)過臉來,雙眼卻沒有一絲感情,冷冷地敷衍:“嗯,他們活該!”“你說什么?他們可是我們的同胞!”我不知道她是否受了什么刺激,竟會(huì)說出這樣的氣話!笆裁赐,世界上不知每天要死多少人,死這一點(diǎn)算什么?"有什么東西好像哽住了喉嚨,我頓時(shí)說不出話來。每一條生命都是珍貴的,她怎么能這樣說。我知道,我們之間已經(jīng)隔了一層可恨的厚障壁。
又沉默了一陣,她突然想到了什么,興奮的說:”哎,你猜猜我昨晚吃了什么?“我答道:”飯!啊卑パ!我說的是菜!“她急切的說。我搖搖頭,無可奈何的笑笑!蔽易蛲沓粤宋寤ㄈ,可好吃了!超香的!“我在心里笑她是吃貨。”那你知道我為什么那么愛吃嗎?“她問。我心想,看你身材就知道了。但是我沒有說出這傷人的話。
她看我沒有興趣,便又沉默下來。
我們就這樣越走越遠(yuǎn)。
想法不同罷了,她只為快樂,但我有著我的夢(mèng)想。我曾一直認(rèn)為我很孤僻,原來不是,我只是還沒有找到知己罷。原來同輩人之間也有代溝……
父母與子女之間的代溝作文9
縱觀歷史,封建社會(huì),**國(guó)家,半絕望國(guó)家什么都有,但重要的原因是什么?
人的思想是不一樣的。在一個(gè)國(guó)家,一個(gè)種族,一個(gè)城市,一個(gè)城鎮(zhèn),一個(gè)國(guó)家,差別很大。我是一個(gè)鎮(zhèn)上的孩子,出生在一個(gè)不富裕的家庭。父母雖然沒有大學(xué)畢業(yè),但確實(shí)有開放教育,沒有嚴(yán)厲的懲罰**。在父母心目中,我更注重如何鼓勵(lì)孩子,讓孩子樹立信心,提高成績(jī)和個(gè)人素質(zhì),更注重如何讓孩子心理健康地成長(zhǎng)。有多少現(xiàn)代家庭有這樣的教育?這顯然造成了代溝,很深的代溝,但是如果有代溝呢?
有人毫不猶豫地回答:“填,家長(zhǎng)更開放,糾正封建教育,跟上現(xiàn)代化的步伐,真正進(jìn)入孩子的心理世界。代溝自然會(huì)被填補(bǔ)!”
但我想說:“說起來容易,做起來有那么容易嗎?”父母可以有意識(shí)地調(diào)整教育方式,但在心里無法改變。他們幾乎很難與孩子達(dá)成一致。所以,希望家長(zhǎng)能聽取孩子的意見,正確引導(dǎo)。夠了。***填補(bǔ)代溝?有什么區(qū)別?
然而,新的問題又出現(xiàn)了。學(xué)校呢?學(xué)校是孩子待的時(shí)間最長(zhǎng)的地方,那么如何解決老師和孩子的代溝呢?
作為我的觀點(diǎn),我覺得現(xiàn)在的孩子更希望得到老師的鼓勵(lì),最討厭的是老師的打罵,因?yàn)檫@嚴(yán)重傷害了我們的自尊心,甚至侮辱了我們的人格。雖然我們知道老師是為我們好,但這種善良讓我們對(duì)老師的敬佩淡化,傷害了我們幼小心靈中脆弱的感情。我們希望老師能以更寬容、更善良的微笑來教我們。這樣代溝就不應(yīng)該被填補(bǔ)了。
父母與子女之間的代溝作文10
在學(xué)校舉行的“四愛”教育演講會(huì)上,鄒老師說:“在麥當(dāng)勞里,當(dāng)你們吃著漢堡,啃著雞翅時(shí),你們的父母只是坐在一旁看你們吃,他們說:‘我們不吃。’孩子們,你們真的以為是他們不愛吃嗎?他們是讓給你們吃!你們想想看,你們都喜歡吃的東西,父母怎樣會(huì)不愛吃呢?”老師說得的確屬實(shí),但在我媽身上卻是個(gè)例外。我笑著問坐在身邊的媽:“你愛吃麥當(dāng)勞嗎?”媽說:“呵,我可沒騙你,我真的不愛吃那東西,那股味道我可受不了。你明白的,我只喜歡吃麥當(dāng)勞里的脆皮甜筒!蔽倚α耍耶(dāng)然明白。其實(shí)我真的很了解她。
她不吃糖,不碰牛肉、羊肉等味重的東西,喜歡吃生黃瓜、生***、胡蘿卜、生地瓜和類似蝦、螃蟹、扇貝這類的海鮮。她受我的影響極愛吃肉串,有時(shí)還會(huì)抿兩口啤酒。她從不喝牛奶,說那有種令她惡心的味道,她寧愿用豆?jié){代替牛奶。她騙不了我,我太了解她。
我和媽媽之間似乎不存在代溝。我不喜歡聽歌,不追求時(shí)尚,我是個(gè)被“流行”一腳踹開的落伍之人,單憑這一點(diǎn),代溝就難以構(gòu)成。媽媽喜歡民族唱法和美聲唱法,于是,在她的熏陶下,我明白了喜歡把頭發(fā)高高挽起,殷秀梅喜歡穿袖口極大的蓬蓬裙,戴玉強(qiáng)喜歡“唱不露齒”……
媽媽從不搽脂抹粉,對(duì)此,我曾感不滿,為什么人家媽媽都花枝招展,只有我媽媽素面朝天?漸漸,我明白了,我要的媽媽不是模特,我要的是愛。此刻想想,樸實(shí)、自然的媽媽才會(huì)令人倍感溫暖與親切。看看我左邊那位厚粉濃妝,一副神圣不可侵犯的“王室貴族”,再看我右邊和藹可親,正與別人談笑風(fēng)生的媽,我不禁釋然許多。
媽說:“我喜歡銀色的小轎車!蔽艺f:“行!我以后給你買。”“你還得給我買套房子。”“沒問題,你喜歡住哪兒?**?還是上海?”“城市倒無所謂,只要靠湖就行。別忘了,必須要?jiǎng)e墅,不是別墅我可不住哦!”我笑了,說:“好,以后必須讓你每一天從自家別墅的車庫里開出銀色轎車,把全市的湖看個(gè)遍!”
代溝英語作文3篇(擴(kuò)展5)
——論代溝的英語作文5篇
論代溝的英語作文1
Nowadays, the problems of generation gap become more and more serious. The poor relationship between parents and their children is very common. Are these problems caused by the busy parents? Or, do the harsh family rules affect the relationship of parents and children?
Firstly, in most of the families in China both of the parents have to go out for work in order to earn more money to provide better environment for their lovely children. Unfortunately, this causes the rare communication between them and theft children, since these parents always take rest during leisure time. These parents and children cannot know dee* about each other and friction will appear. Secondly, parents who ask their children to be absolutely obedient is also one of the grave causes of the generation gap between them! They do not try to communicate with their children as their equals. Thus, misinterpretation of them may easily occur.
To solve these problems, the busy parents should sacrifice their spare time to communicate with their children actively and friendly to improve their relation. At the same time, they can also observe their childrens behavior at the same time in order to understand heir childrens personality as it can reduce the quarrel between them. Besides that, the parents should try to give up their absolute power in family so as lo make their children feel free to chat with them.
論代溝的英語作文2
Accordingto the variety of social background, personal experience and personal emotion,differernt people have different opinions towards things. Thus, there is nodoubt that generation gap exists everywhere. We always find that there are bigdifferences between us and the old generation. We always regard the old areoutdated, while they think us are crazy. They can’t bear the dress we like, thefashion we pursue or even our childish thinking. Instead, we could put up withtheir standpat thingking and their “feudal rulers”.
Thus, the generation gapbecomes more and more obvious and serious. However, why don’t we realize that opinionscan be changed, while people can’t. So, we can think in an other way, learn toaccept. It is certain that we can narrow the generation gap to live a more harmoniouslife.
論代溝的英語作文3
In the modern socienty,there is misunderstanding between parents and their children.The parents always consider that their children do the wrong things, and their children always complain, their parents don't understand them,which leads to the generation gap.
There are two reasons. First the young man live in different environments from their parents', so they alway have different ideas aboutproblems. Secondly the parents alway prevent their children from doing their favourite things which often cause a fight.
I think the generation gap can be handled if the parents and childrentry their best. They can have open talks and tell ideas to each other. They should realize every generation have their own strong and weak points.Only in this way,a better relationship will be built.
在現(xiàn)代當(dāng)前,父母和孩子之間有誤解。父母總是認(rèn)為他們的孩子做錯(cuò)了事情,和他們的孩子總是抱怨,他們的父母不理解他們,這導(dǎo)致了代溝。
有兩個(gè)原因。首先,年輕人從他們的父母生活在不同的環(huán)境中,所以他們總是有不同的想法關(guān)于問題。其次父母總是阻止孩子們做他們喜歡的事往往造成打擊。
我認(rèn)為代溝是可以處理的,如果父母和孩子他們最好的。他們可以打開對(duì)話,告訴彼此的想法。他們應(yīng)該意識(shí)到每一代人都有自己的強(qiáng)大和弱點(diǎn)。只有用這種方法,將建造一個(gè)更好的關(guān)系。
論代溝的英語作文4
A complex problem –generation gap Nowadays,“generation gap”has gradually become a common phenomenon all over the world. Experiencing different time, as a result, causes the difference between parents and children in tastes, the method they deal with problems and values.
This case may more easily happen in teenagers. The reason lies in they are young, they have strong passion for freedom, and they like showing themselves off. Then it is no wonder that arguments often arise between their parents and them, which always make the parents worried. They can hardly figure out what their children are thinking about. Because they wear strange clothes, listen noisy music and even walk around town with tattoos and pierces all over their bodies. Nevertheless, in teenager’ eyes, their parents are out of date and conservative. They may talk with their friends more often than their parents. In a word, ‘generation gap’ is an interminable problem.
Seriously, how to bridge the generation gap? In my opinion, first, show respect. The mutual respect can play an important role in avoiding conflicts. Second, listen more than talk. It’s no doubt that it is a very efficient way to keep the conversation
longer. At last, keep humors, this can make the talk friendly.
Despite the fact that parents may be worried about the generation gap between their children and themselves. But as we all know, with time going by, children gradually grow old and ripe. And then they will come to understand their parents.
論代溝的英語作文5
Parents say that children do not show them proper respect and obedience, while children complain that their parents do not understand them. This
phenomenon is often referred as the generation gap. What are the causes of the generation gap?
One important cause of the generation gap is that young people have to
choose their way of life. In more traditional societies, when children grow up, they are expected to live in the same area as their parents, to marry people that their parents know and agree to, and to continue the family occupation. In modern society, young people often travel a great distance for their education, move out of the family at an early age, marry or live with people whom their parents have never met, and choose occupations different from those of their parents.
In the easily changing society, parents often expect their children to do better than they did: to find better jobs, to make more money; and to do all the things that they were unable to do. Often, however, the strong desire that parents have for their children are another cause of the disagreement between them. Often, they discover that they have very little in comMon with each other. Finally, the speed at which changes take place in modern society is another cause of the gap between the generations. In a traditional culture, elderly
people are valued for their wisdom, but in modern society, the knowledge of a lifetime may become out of date overnight. The young and the old seem to live in two very different worlds, separated by different skills and abilities.
No doubt, the generation gap will continue to be a future of our life for some time to come. Its causes are rooted in the changes of our society, and in the rapid speed at which society changes.
代溝英語作文3篇(擴(kuò)展6)
——代溝作文3篇
代溝作文1
代溝,一個(gè)既熟悉又陌生的名詞。
以前,我認(rèn)為在我和我的家長(zhǎng)這兩代中,不會(huì)有代溝這種狀況出現(xiàn),可是最近我才發(fā)現(xiàn),代溝并不會(huì)因?yàn)樯鐣?huì)的文明進(jìn)步而消失,卻反而會(huì)因?yàn)樯鐣?huì)的高速發(fā)展而逐漸從無到有,逐漸的被人們所認(rèn)識(shí)。就像環(huán)境污染一樣,越是進(jìn)步,就越嚴(yán)重。但是人們的主觀行動(dòng)呢,只是一味的去改善,而不從根本上去解決問題。長(zhǎng)久下去,道高一尺,魔高一丈,代溝的害處只會(huì)與日俱增,成為一種無法醫(yī)治的“遺傳病”。
古代,人們對(duì)代溝都沒有什么認(rèn)識(shí)(甚至根本不知道代溝的含義),但它還是在無形中存在的,至少,它是無形的。如果沒有代溝,社會(huì)就不會(huì)發(fā)展。
然而,在高度文明的今天,在代溝已經(jīng)從無形變?yōu)橛行蔚慕裉,有些家長(zhǎng)卻還是總以監(jiān)護(hù)人的身份時(shí)刻地盯在孩子的身后,不是告訴孩子什么該干,什么不該干,而是叮囑孩子什么應(yīng)該怎么干,不應(yīng)干怎么干,這樣則壓抑了很多孩子的內(nèi)在潛力。
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家長(zhǎng)和孩子之間的代溝是說不完的,也是填不完的,就像韓寒說的:你以為填代溝是填陰溝嗎?所以我們根本就不用去填,讓它良性的.發(fā)展下去會(huì)是解決的最好方法。
以上僅是我的個(gè)人觀點(diǎn),供同學(xué)們討論,大家一起談。
代溝作文2
隨著時(shí)代進(jìn)步的節(jié)奏越來越快,各年齡層之間所出現(xiàn)的思想鴻溝也變得越來越大。10年前小孩的童年還養(yǎng)著電子寵物吃著牛奶糖,但是10年后的今天,已經(jīng)一人一*板,低頭無限刷。
這造成了上一代人非常難以去即時(shí)跟進(jìn)整個(gè)時(shí)代的進(jìn)步,我并不是說他們固步自封,而是整個(gè)時(shí)代進(jìn)步得太快太快了,很多他們小時(shí)候無法相信的事情,一下子出現(xiàn)了很多,使到他們消化不來進(jìn)而拒絕。這正正造就了這個(gè)時(shí)代與上一個(gè)時(shí)代價(jià)值觀不同所產(chǎn)生出來的代購(gòu)。
當(dāng)上一代人還在緬懷黑白電視的日子,這一代人已經(jīng)往3D電視邁進(jìn);當(dāng)上一代人覺得狗只能拿來看門或者吃掉的時(shí)候,這一代人已經(jīng)開始為狗穿衣服吹冷氣玩親親了。當(dāng)上一代人覺得玩物喪志的時(shí)候,這一代人已經(jīng)衍生出了游戲的職業(yè)選手,世界冠軍。
上一代人無法一時(shí)間接受那么多新事物,而這一代人則認(rèn)為這是一個(gè)全新的時(shí)代,一個(gè)充滿機(jī)會(huì)的時(shí)代,很多時(shí)候這造成了兩代之間無法良好溝通的因素。上一代的人希望延續(xù)傳統(tǒng),就好像他們延續(xù)了更前一代的傳**樣,但是由于資訊爆炸,現(xiàn)在的年輕人開始會(huì)思考,開始會(huì)想要有自己的生活方式,自己的理想,F(xiàn)在還有多少年輕人愿意去接受家里人雜貨店呢?
我認(rèn)為現(xiàn)代人和上一代人最大的差別在于,現(xiàn)代的人敢于去追尋自己的夢(mèng)想與興趣,相較于上一代人偏向于安穩(wěn)的生活,這之間的差距是很巨大的。舉個(gè)例子吧,就拿電腦課程來說好了,上一代人如果沒有接觸過電腦的話,就會(huì)認(rèn)為電腦課程就是學(xué)會(huì)修電腦,然后開一間電腦店。如果那位年輕人想念的是電腦軟件課程,可能畢業(yè)之后就要花一點(diǎn)時(shí)間去解釋為什麼,他并沒有開電腦店,而是進(jìn)了軟件公司當(dāng)上班族了。
而很多新興的工作模式也是無法這么快被上一代人所理解的。如果我說今天有個(gè)人靠著販賣電玩里的裝備月入數(shù)千甚至萬,現(xiàn)代人可能會(huì)相信,但是上一代的人則無法理解一個(gè)每天坐在家里按電腦的人,怎么可以月入數(shù)千,他甚至沒有出門交易,銀行戶口的號(hào)碼就不斷的在提升中了(我說的不是那種網(wǎng)絡(luò)賺錢法ok?網(wǎng)絡(luò)賺錢法的人不要拿我這篇文去騙人。之前直銷的拿過我的文,干生氣)。
隨著很多很多的新興模式出來,就算是現(xiàn)代人有時(shí)候也必須要先考證才能相信,更何況上一代人必須要在短短二十年內(nèi)往整個(gè)時(shí)代大跳躍。
這并不是說上一代人會(huì)被淘汰,因?yàn)槿饲槭拦蔬@種事情永遠(yuǎn)只有老一輩的人才能體會(huì),而新一代人雖然充滿干勁與理想,但是生活上的東西,真的還不如老方法管用。這一代人正在不斷的進(jìn)步,但是在進(jìn)步的同時(shí)我們能不能夠很好的繼承了上一代的人生價(jià)值觀這是我很好奇的,尤其是在我們的代溝越來越大的時(shí)候。
我覺得,年輕人必須要改善自己的'沖動(dòng),而上一代人也必須放棄我是老大的觀念,兩代人之間多溝通,這樣我們才能在不斷接收新事物的同時(shí),也保留著一些美好的傳統(tǒng)觀念。否則在越來越**的代溝下,我們將會(huì)有所缺失。
代溝作文3
我是一個(gè)不愛讀書的孩子。說真的,如果給我很多空閑,寧愿是睡覺望天或者發(fā)呆,也不可能像懂事的孩子那樣捧上一本書去看個(gè)不停。
不知道是與生俱來的“逆反”,還是后天形成的習(xí)慣,我與書之間,或許比任何一個(gè)陌生人都相隔甚遠(yuǎn)。如果是教科書,在考試的**之下也會(huì)不由的看上許久。否則無論你在桌面上擺幾本書,多么暢銷絕版也好,我的待遇都是把它們一本一本的放回書架子上。
其實(shí)自己也不是那么討厭看書,可每次的行動(dòng)卻總會(huì)違反指令一般。眼神好不容易在書面上盯了那么小會(huì)兒,愣住,最后依然不屑轉(zhuǎn)向。要是哪一天興趣激起,多少帶著點(diǎn)三分鐘熱度從書城抱上幾本名著級(jí)的書,心想自己也能與書接軌了;丶抑,又是往桌上一放,抬頭看看書架里還有幾個(gè)位子。這么一轉(zhuǎn)念,反正還有的是時(shí)間,便順手地放了上去。誰知道呢,書本一去不復(fù)返了……
不想而不看,不看成習(xí)慣。我對(duì)書的表現(xiàn)便如此百折不撓,想不明白自己到底是擁有了何物去抵制書,一無返顧。不時(shí)瞧瞧小學(xué)孩子寫的作文,字句間透息書香。古典名著現(xiàn)代小說雜志讀物,什么《紅樓夢(mèng)》《讀者》《伊索寓言》的,他們一定想著不看個(gè)**真是浪費(fèi)了。估計(jì)找他們聊侃說書,應(yīng)該連續(xù)很多日子也停不下來吧,我要是現(xiàn)在也找些時(shí)間來彌補(bǔ)書,更得需要無盡光年了。所謂“你走你的陽光道,我過我的獨(dú)木橋”,看著這些花朵們才人倍出,欣慰地?fù)P揚(yáng)嘴角,自己還是好好學(xué)習(xí),趕赴中考。
記得有一期《對(duì)話》節(jié)目,講述的是*童話大王鄭淵潔和英國(guó)作家J.K.羅琳《哈利波特》對(duì)世面上的影響力。兩套熟悉的書名,在我看來卻顯得那么陌生,記憶中從未出現(xiàn)過其內(nèi)容篇章,那些浮華唯美,使得一個(gè)個(gè)讀者神魂顛倒。我想到了同桌,那個(gè)哈迷,每天嘻嘻哈哈地向我傳達(dá)哈利信息,本著一顆執(zhí)著熱愛的心,竟然在學(xué)校里創(chuàng)辦起哈迷協(xié)會(huì)來;谝槐緯,默默付出。
我佩服,甚至嫉妒。
那些熱愛看書的孩子們,寂寞中與書為伴,歡笑中和書暢談,無窮無盡在書的世界中翱翔。聽起來就感覺很美。我呢,至此品著干枯,沉浮于世,可算是空靈罷了。
我慚愧,甚至懊悔。
面對(duì)那些熱衷的書迷們,那些書們,那些文字。為什么沒有及時(shí)去接觸,從而丟失了那分興趣,以至現(xiàn)在還阻隔著。
事到如今,談何彌補(bǔ)?
只怕我和書的代溝,已經(jīng)陷下去,很深很深。
代溝英語作文3篇(擴(kuò)展7)
——代溝作文300字3篇
代溝作文300字1
代溝就像一座遙遠(yuǎn)的橋。我們?cè)谶@一頭,父母卻在那一頭。我們兩兩相望,希望能走進(jìn)對(duì)方的心靈深處。但是橋很長(zhǎng),路很遠(yuǎn)……
代溝是無法避免的。我和爸爸也會(huì)有代溝。我是個(gè)漫畫迷,對(duì)漫畫情有獨(dú)鐘。周五,我做完作業(yè),興沖沖地拿出新買的《*卡通》,津津有味地讀了起來。很快我便癡迷在了漫畫的奇幻世界中,不可自拔。突然手中的書好像變魔術(shù)似得不見了。我迷惑地抬起了頭,只見滿臉黑線的老爸怒氣沖沖:“這是什么破玩意!只有**才看,你想成為大**嗎?”我支支吾吾地說:“老爸,我長(zhǎng)大想成為漫畫家才看的!薄笆裁?漫畫家?”說著,老爸撕了手中的`書:“真沒出息!”嗚嗚,漫畫家怎么沒出息了。柯嫾夷苡霉P描繪出心中的世界,可以給別人帶來快樂。老爸為什么不能理解我呢?這就是所謂的代溝吧!可是我真不想和老爸有代溝。∵@代溝很難跨越,但只要我主動(dòng)走出第一步,我和爸爸的距離就會(huì)越來越近。
周六,我努力畫了一幅漫畫送給親愛的老爸。雖然畫筆幼稚,畫風(fēng)簡(jiǎn)單,但是我還是看到了老爸嘴角的那一絲微笑。
代溝其實(shí)并不可怕,只要我們勇敢地走出了第一步,代溝之橋必定會(huì)越來越短,直至消失。
代溝英語作文3篇(擴(kuò)展8)
——溝通是彌合代溝的關(guān)鍵英語作文
溝通是彌合代溝的關(guān)鍵英語作文1
The generation gap is unavoidable in almost every family, which brings about a number of conflicts in a family. In my opinion, to limit the bad effects of the generation gap, each family should use the following three methods:
First of all, it is important that family members discuss openly about their pleasures or sadness in childhood in family gatherings. This activity does not only create a close relationship but also help build up understanding among all members. For instance, once children are aware that their grandparents and even their parents did not have a good upbringing during their hard childhood, they will stop complaining about the previous generations’ obsoleteness. In the meantime, once old people realize young people are nurtured in a new modern way, it is easy for them to be tolerant of young people’s new habits or hobbies.
Secondly, people of each generation should not develop a very high feeling about themselves. In order to do that, they should not think that they are the only right people in their family because each person has his or her own limitations. Teenagers would realize that their parents have to struggle with pain to support them financially, and they would stop rebelling their strictness. Parents would realize that their children’s new style does no harm to their studies and stop imposing their own unsuitable standards on their children.
Finally, the generation gap and its bad effects can be limited if all members cooperate to build up a close-knit family relationship and a harmonious atmosphere in which they are open and tolerant of each other. I strongly believe that each family, by doing that, can enjoy a cozy atmosphere with minimum interference by the generation gap.
代溝英語作文3篇(擴(kuò)展9)
——父母代溝作文600字菁選
父母代溝作文600字7篇
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父母代溝作文600字 篇1
其實(shí)有時(shí)候,人是很無辜的,特別是和父母有著嚴(yán)重代溝的時(shí)候。90后思想不同于70、80后的思想,因此,就會(huì)產(chǎn)生很多代溝問題,有的會(huì)很嚴(yán)重、有的卻很輕微,程度大不相同。
現(xiàn)在大多數(shù)家庭都至少會(huì)擁有一臺(tái)電腦,有的家庭卻會(huì)是一人一臺(tái),因此,電腦這一電器已經(jīng)不再成為90后的奢侈品,但隨著電腦的加入,也給家庭帶來了矛盾。
網(wǎng)絡(luò)世界是豐富多彩的,它變化萬千,讓我們神往之極,更讓我們大開眼界,讓我們迷戀,更讓我們難以把握,甚至?xí)钗覀兪プ晕,迷失方向,深陷而不能自拔。作?0后的.我就是其中一位:因?qū)W習(xí)的需要,老師經(jīng)常叫我們回家后搜尋一些資料回來,我就向爸媽要了一臺(tái)電腦。但老天爺跟我作對(duì),那個(gè)月恰好沒布置關(guān)于查資料的功課。所以,電腦就成了我上網(wǎng)看電影,看電視劇的工具。但我并沒因此忘記了學(xué)習(xí)。
網(wǎng)上聊QQ,是時(shí)代之風(fēng),大家*時(shí)見面不敢說不能說的話聊得天,在網(wǎng)絡(luò)中都可以去做。QQ農(nóng)場(chǎng)、QQ牧場(chǎng)、QQ花園、QQ飛車、QQ餐廳、搶車位……等等源于生活的是,在網(wǎng)絡(luò)中都有,很多奢想的事都能成為現(xiàn)實(shí),但限于虛擬世界。這些游戲風(fēng)摩105全班,甚至全校,老師、學(xué)生、校警、清潔工人…大家都在玩這些。凡是沒玩過的就很“土”了,所以,課余時(shí)間,我常玩,而且不亦樂乎呢!但這些游戲在我爸媽眼里全是“垃圾”,不許我玩,只許我用電腦來查資料、聽音樂,寫作文、練字……不久,我愛**QQ,因?yàn)榘謰尣蛔,我只有背著玩玩。紙包不住火,還是被發(fā)現(xiàn)了,我媽臭罵了我一頓,當(dāng)我跟他論理時(shí),她理直氣壯的說:“玩玩玩,整天就知道玩,早知道我就不買了,看哪天拔網(wǎng)線拔了。”
對(duì)此,我只有無奈可言了,誰叫他們是我父母呢?哎!我和父母間的關(guān)系越搞越糟糕了,這讓原本理智的我都開始變傻了……什么時(shí)候才能解決這問題呢?大家都想知道吧!
父母代溝作文600字 篇2
其實(shí)有時(shí)候,人是很無辜的,特別是和父母有著嚴(yán)重與父母代溝的時(shí)候。90后思想不同于70、80后的思想,因此,就會(huì)產(chǎn)生很多與父母代溝問題,有的.會(huì)很嚴(yán)重、有的卻很輕微,程度大不相同。
現(xiàn)在大多數(shù)家庭都至少會(huì)擁有一臺(tái)電腦,有的家庭卻會(huì)是一人一臺(tái),因此,電腦這一電器已經(jīng)不再成為90后的奢侈品,但隨著電腦的加入,也給家庭帶來了矛盾。
網(wǎng)絡(luò)世界是豐富多彩的,它變化萬千,讓我們神往之極,更讓我們大開眼界,讓我們迷戀,更讓我們難以把握,甚至?xí)钗覀兪プ晕遥允Х较,深陷而不能自拔。作?0后的我就是其中一位:因?qū)W習(xí)的需要,老師經(jīng)常叫我們回家后搜尋一些資料回來,我就向爸媽要了一臺(tái)電腦。但老天爺跟我作對(duì),那個(gè)月恰好沒布置關(guān)于查資料的功課。所以,電腦就成了我上網(wǎng)看電影,看電視劇的工具。但我并沒因此忘記了學(xué)習(xí)。
網(wǎng)上聊QQ,是時(shí)代之風(fēng),大家*時(shí)見面不敢說不能說的話聊得天,在網(wǎng)絡(luò)中都可以去做。QQ農(nóng)場(chǎng)、QQ牧場(chǎng)、QQ花園、QQ飛車、QQ餐廳、搶車位……等等源于生活的是,在網(wǎng)絡(luò)中都有,很多奢想的事都能成為現(xiàn)實(shí),但限于虛擬世界。這些游戲風(fēng)摩105全班,甚至全校,老師、學(xué)生、校警、清潔工人…大家都在玩這些。凡是沒玩過的就很“土”了,所以,課余時(shí)間,我常玩,而且不亦樂乎呢!但這些游戲在我爸媽眼里全是“垃圾”,不許我玩,只許我用電腦來查資料、聽音樂,寫作文、練字……不久,我愛**QQ,因?yàn)榘謰尣蛔,我只有背著玩玩。紙包不住火,還是被發(fā)現(xiàn)了,我媽臭罵了我一頓,當(dāng)我跟他論理時(shí),她理直氣壯的說:“玩玩玩,整天就知道玩,早知道我就不買了,看哪天拔網(wǎng)線拔了!
對(duì)此,我只有無奈可言了,誰叫他們是我父母呢?哎!我和父母間的關(guān)系越搞越糟糕了,這讓原本理智的我都開始變傻了……什么時(shí)候才能解決這問題呢?大家都想知道吧!
父母代溝作文600字 篇3
在信息、科技發(fā)達(dá)的今天,兒女與父母之間的代溝也越來越深,越來越大。如今父母與兒女之間的“代溝”問題成了家庭間的問題之一。并且也變得越來越主要的問題之一。
材料三中,父母與兒女之間發(fā)生的矛盾就是因?yàn)榇鷾隙鸬,因(yàn)榇鷾,父母不理解自己,自己不聽父母的勸告,因此就發(fā)生矛盾,當(dāng)今最好的縮小代溝的方法便是與父母交流了,正如材料一中所說到的,做子女的得在日常中觸摸父母的性格。然后承他們的愛做到自己的心安。的.確,兒女是應(yīng)在生活中多了解父母,多與父母溝通,去做他們喜歡的事。這樣家里的矛盾就會(huì)更小一點(diǎn),更少一點(diǎn)。因此,與父母溝通交流成了縮小兒女與父母之間的代溝的方法之一。
而今,越來越多的學(xué)生的人生已經(jīng)被父母安排的滿滿的,似乎父母已經(jīng)為他們鋪好道路只要他們走下去。但就是因?yàn)槿绱耍芏鄬W(xué)生似乎過的并不充實(shí),并不快樂。在《熊出沒奇幻空間》中的反派男人物,他從小就沒有童年,每天都是各種培訓(xùn)班:奧賽,物理,化學(xué),美術(shù)、鋼琴……甚至還在培訓(xùn)過程中失去了他最好的朋友--薛定鍔,正因?yàn)楦改附o孩子定排好了路程,導(dǎo)致代溝越來越大,其實(shí)兒女應(yīng)多和父母出去散步,談?wù)摳鞣N事情,過不了多久我們就會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn),父母與孩子之間的代溝變小了。 其實(shí),很多時(shí)候并不是因?yàn)樽约翰宦爠窀,也并不是因(yàn)楦改覆焕斫庾约海菍?duì)方?jīng)]能夠徹底地理解對(duì)方。在當(dāng)今社會(huì),有百分之八十以上的工作都和理科有關(guān),因此在選科時(shí),父母是為了我們將來能夠更好的就業(yè)的基礎(chǔ)上去讓我們選理,但對(duì)于有些人來講選擇理科并不是自己的意愿,可能自已喜歡文科,這時(shí)父母與兒女之間的代溝就暴露出來,父母希望孩子能有個(gè)好工作,而兒女希望父母尊重自己的意見,只要多多交流,互相理解,就是可以達(dá)到雙方和解的情況。 現(xiàn)在,縮小兒女與父母之間的代溝非常有必要,但行動(dòng)其實(shí)在兒女,兒女應(yīng)該更要懂得父母的心思。這樣兒女與父母之間的代溝才有機(jī)會(huì)變小。
父母代溝作文600字 篇4
最近和爸爸鬧的總是不怎么愉快,爸爸自己悶悶地說:“我知道,你大了,我們有與父母代溝作文了,你大了,只和媽好!蔽铱梢悦黠@的聽出你語氣里有一份講不好使失望,是嫉妒還是對(duì)自己的不滿,總之,你難過,我痛心。
記得,我和你發(fā)生什么口角的時(shí)候,你總是發(fā)火或者說破什么關(guān)于與父母代溝作文的話,但是你可曾想過我啊,我難道真的認(rèn)為和你有與父母代溝作文了嗎?
每天和你晚上吃完飯了后,你總會(huì)拉著我的`手,就像大手拉小手一樣。你會(huì)以一位家長(zhǎng)或是一位知己或很尊重的態(tài)度來和我聊天,其實(shí)每次我都裝出十分不樂意的樣子,但是我的心中認(rèn)為這是一段十分享受的時(shí)光,因?yàn)檫@個(gè)時(shí)候終于有一個(gè)人靜靜的聽我訴說,不論是東南西北或扯得更遠(yuǎn)的話題。
爸爸,你從來為什么只看見你對(duì)我的愛,卻看不見我對(duì)你的愛呢,你為什么總是希望自己一個(gè)人付出,總是不求回報(bào)。你知不知道當(dāng)你和我聊時(shí),你說過,你覺得現(xiàn)在生活沒什么意思,要不是我,的會(huì)離家遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)的,你知道我嘴上只是對(duì)你嗔怪,其實(shí)心里有多傷心嗎,你不管怎么樣,你始終是我的爸爸朋友。
爸爸,你怎么會(huì)知道,我為有你這樣一位爸爸而自豪,當(dāng)同學(xué)總是在抱怨爸爸不體諒他們但是我總是在心里偷偷笑哩,因?yàn)槲矣幸晃焕斫馕业陌职郑晃徊徽撌裁词露伎梢愿嬖V他,他會(huì)替我想辦法,他會(huì)在一個(gè)同齡人的角度上替我想辦法。我很感謝他。
但是,你在還沒有更深入的了解我,你就全盤否認(rèn)了我們還可以好好交流,你就說我長(zhǎng)大了,你就說我們有與父母代溝作文,其實(shí),如果真的有與父母代溝作文,只有我不能了解你,一定不會(huì)是我不愿和你交流,所以,我們之間永遠(yuǎn)沒有與父母代溝作文,爸爸,我是很愛你的,所有,我知道我們之間永遠(yuǎn)沒有與父母代溝作文。
父母代溝作文600字 篇5
最近和爸爸鬧的總是不怎么愉快,爸爸自己悶悶地說:“我知道,你大了,我們有代溝了,你大了,只和媽好。”我可以明顯的聽出你語氣里有一份講不好使失望,是嫉妒還是對(duì)自己的不滿,總之,你難過,我痛心。
記得,我和你發(fā)生什么口角的時(shí)候,你總是發(fā)火或者說破什么關(guān)于代溝的話,但是你可曾想過我啊,我難道真的認(rèn)為和你有代溝了嗎?
每天和你晚上吃完飯了后,你總會(huì)拉著我的手,就像大手拉小手一樣。你會(huì)以一位家長(zhǎng)或是一位知己或很尊重的.態(tài)度來和我聊天,其實(shí)每次我都裝出十分不樂意的樣子,但是我的心中認(rèn)為這是一段十分享受的時(shí)光,因?yàn)檫@個(gè)時(shí)候終于有一個(gè)人靜靜的聽我訴說,不論是東南西北或扯得更遠(yuǎn)的話題。
爸爸,你從來為什么只看見你對(duì)我的愛,卻看不見我對(duì)你的愛呢,你為什么總是希望自己一個(gè)人付出,總是不求回報(bào)。你知不知道當(dāng)你和我聊時(shí),你說過,你覺得現(xiàn)在生活沒什么意思,要不是我,的會(huì)離家遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)的,你知道我嘴上只是對(duì)你嗔怪,其實(shí)心里有多傷心嗎,你不管怎么樣,你始終是我的爸爸朋友。
爸爸,你怎么會(huì)知道,我為有你這樣一位爸爸而自豪,當(dāng)同學(xué)總是在抱怨爸爸不體諒他們但是我總是在心里偷偷笑哩,因?yàn)槲矣幸晃焕斫馕业陌职郑晃徊徽撌裁词露伎梢愿嬖V他,他會(huì)替我想辦法,他會(huì)在一個(gè)同齡人的角度上替我想辦法。我很感謝他。
但是,你在還沒有更深入的了解我,你就全盤否認(rèn)了我們還可以好好交流,你就說我長(zhǎng)大了,你就說我們有代溝,其實(shí),如果真的有代溝,只有我不能了解你,一定不會(huì)是我不愿和你交流,所以,我們之間永遠(yuǎn)沒有代溝,爸爸,我是很愛你的,所有,我知道我們之間永遠(yuǎn)沒有代溝。
父母代溝作文600字 篇6
進(jìn)入親春期后,我們生命又奏響了全新的樂章。我們于父母的關(guān)系也發(fā)生了變化,出現(xiàn)了溝通上的困難。我們總在抱怨“父母越來越不理解我們”,而父母也在感嘆“孩子越來越難以管教”。大多數(shù)人會(huì)與父母產(chǎn)生不同程度的誤解、分歧,甚至隔閡、矛盾與沖突。
心理學(xué)家和社會(huì)學(xué)家把兩代人之間的矛盾和沖突稱為“代溝”或“代際沖突”。**社會(huì)學(xué)家瑪格麗特·米德在一本名叫《代溝》的書中指出:“整個(gè)世界處于一個(gè)前所未有的局面之中,青年人和老年人,青少年和所有比他們年長(zhǎng)的人,隔著一條深溝在互相相望……” 這些問題的出現(xiàn)有多方面的原因。
進(jìn)入青春期,我們開始朦朧地意識(shí)到自己正在變成“大人”;我們對(duì)自己的言行和內(nèi)心世界表現(xiàn)出越來越多的'關(guān)注,自我意識(shí)和自尊心不斷增強(qiáng);我們對(duì)**的依賴越來越少,**性越來越強(qiáng)。 我們不再像過去那樣把父母看成是至高無上、無所不知的,而是逐步用批判的眼光看待父母。我們強(qiáng)烈希望并嘗試與父母建立*等的關(guān)系。我們不再一味地依賴父母,被動(dòng)地接受他們的干預(yù)、指導(dǎo),而是開始**地思考問題,自主地解決問題。
但是,很多父母仍然把我們方程不懂事的“小孩兒”。因此,我們與父母之間就產(chǎn)生了各種誤解、分歧、隔閡,甚至產(chǎn)生矛盾與沖突。
由于我們與父母在知識(shí)水*、思想觀念、行為方式等方面存在差異,因此對(duì)同一個(gè)問題的看法、態(tài)度不一定相同,這是雙方矛盾產(chǎn)生的重要原因。
我們?cè)趯W(xué)習(xí)和生活上遇到困難時(shí),很愿意求助父母和老師。但是,遇到心理困惑,可能更愿意向同伴傾訴。我們與同伴之間越來越密切的關(guān)系也可能使我們與父母的親情變得相對(duì)疏遠(yuǎn)。
在這個(gè)時(shí)期,我們往往會(huì)以執(zhí)拗的、對(duì)立的、反抗的心態(tài)對(duì)待婦女。這又加劇了我們與父母治療的矛盾和沖突。 父母與子女之間的“代溝”是客觀存在的,同時(shí)是難以避免的。
父母代溝作文600字 篇7
王女士的兒子亮亮已經(jīng)17歲了,她給我們講了這樣一個(gè)故事:有一天亮亮向她要150塊錢,開始她問做什么,而亮亮只是說有用,在她以不說明原因就不給錢的追問下,亮亮才說要參加一個(gè)訓(xùn)練營(yíng),叫“21天訓(xùn)練營(yíng)”,是一個(gè)網(wǎng)上訓(xùn)練系統(tǒng)。而王女士一聽是網(wǎng)絡(luò)上的,就以她主觀判斷說網(wǎng)上的東西都是騙人的,不管三七二十一就是不讓亮亮參加。亮亮非常生氣,經(jīng)過一天的“冷戰(zhàn)”后王女士才主動(dòng)要求多了解了解那個(gè)“21天訓(xùn)練營(yíng)”,后來才知道這個(gè)訓(xùn)練營(yíng)是亮亮同學(xué)推薦給他的,能夠很好的提升參加者完成目標(biāo)的素質(zhì)以及幫助參加者克服虎頭蛇尾的惡習(xí)。但她還是對(duì)網(wǎng)絡(luò)上的東西深表懷疑,最后看在兒子主動(dòng)想要提高自己的積極性上,才幫助亮亮匯了錢開通了“21天訓(xùn)練營(yíng)”。沒想到亮亮在參加后就像完全變了個(gè)人似的,學(xué)習(xí)也主動(dòng)開了,并且每天的計(jì)劃都制定的非常好,半年來成績(jī)已提升了很多。
王女士對(duì)我們說,從這件事情上她總結(jié)出了兩點(diǎn):一,如果兒女主動(dòng)做以前不會(huì)去做的事情,就一定有他充足的理由,做父母的就要去充分了解,不要武斷的.去打擊兒女。二,做父母的要經(jīng)常去接觸新事物,不要總認(rèn)為新的事物就是不好的。比如網(wǎng)絡(luò)并不總是騙人的。
其實(shí),亮亮的母親還算是開明的了,楊鵬的父母就不是這樣的了。楊鵬快要大學(xué)畢業(yè)了,他很想去私企鍛煉自己,而他的父母卻希望他到國(guó)企,因?yàn)檫@樣工作穩(wěn)定。至今,他還在為此苦惱不已。
兩代人,或多或少總會(huì)有一些與父母代溝作文,在很多方面沒有共同語言,相互不能理解對(duì)方的行為及思想。做晚輩的,要盡力去理解父輩,盡力減少不必要的沖突。而做父輩的呢?是不是也該去勇于接收新事物,多去理解理解新一代的思想?
兄弟姐妹們,你們的老爸老媽都咋樣啊,我爸就特古板,郁悶!
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