每逢佳節(jié)倍思親,我想說(shuō),無(wú)論我身在何處,無(wú)論我人在何方,我的心永遠(yuǎn)和你們?cè)谝黄穑?/p>。這句話一定是被你用了無(wú)數(shù)次以后,在他心里被強(qiáng)化成了最有力量的表?yè)P(yáng)
話!
老師建議我以后試試其它表?yè)P(yáng)鼓勵(lì)孩子的話,淡化這句“GoodJob”的作用。
原來(lái)是我這當(dāng)媽的語(yǔ)言單調(diào)造成了孩子的毛玻
下一次見(jiàn)到她,她拿出一張紙遞給我說(shuō):“這個(gè)或許對(duì)你有幫助!
接過(guò)來(lái)一看,上面打印的是:101種表?yè)P(yáng)孩子的話(101 ways to praise a child)
我看了之后大受啟發(fā),把它打出來(lái)和朋友們分享。 1. Way-to-go! 2. You're special. 3. You're on your way. 4. How smart! 5. Good Job! 6. Good for you! 7. You're a winner. 8. Terrific! 9. Great discovery. 10. I trust you. 11. You're exciting. 12. You're so sweet. 13. You make my life complete. 14. You're so heavenly. 15. Bravo! 16. Super! 17. Outstanding! 18. Great! 19. Wow! 20. That's amazing! 21. How nice. 22. That's incredible! 23. You're adorable. 24. Dynamite! 25. Beautiful work. 26. Remarkable job. 27. Nothing can stop you now. 28. You're beautiful. 29. You're one-of-a-kind. 30. You're so creative. 31. Great work! 32. Fantastic job! 33. Phenomenal! 34. You are so important. 35. You figured it out. 36. Hip! Hip! Hooray! 37. You did that very well. 38. Good learning! 39. You're a good listener. 40. You're are so much fun. 41. You're caring. 42. You tried very hard. 43. Wonderful sharing. 44. You're a treasure. 45. Awesome! 46. You're wonderful. 47. You're A-OK! 48. You made my day. 49. Thank you 50. You have a great sense of humor.51. Good! 52. You make me happy. 53. You're incredible. 54. You're on target. 55. Looking good. 56. I knew you could do it. 57. I'm proud of you. 58. Well done! 59. Marvelous! 60. Exceptional performance. 61. You're a real trooper. 62. You are so responsible. 63. What a great imagination. 64. You belong. 65. That's right. 66. Now you've got it! 67. You're catching on. 68. You're on top of it. 69. Nice work! 70. Excellent! 71. That's remarkable. 72. Beautiful! 73. You're precious. 74. Magnificent! 75. Super work! 76. You're a good friend. 77. You mean a lot to me. 78. That's the best. 79. Give them a big hug. 80. You've discovered the secret. 81. You're spectacular. 82. You're a darling. 83. I like you. 84. You're fantastic. 85. Neat! 86. That's good manners. 87. Bingo! 88. You're growing up. 89. You're getting better. 90. You brighten my day. 91. That's perfect. 92. You're such a joy. 93. You're so kissable. 94. You have a wonderful smile. 95. You make me feel good. 96. You work hard. 97. Good thinking! 98. Good planning! 99. You're a good helper. 100. I like the way you did that. 101.Say, "I Love You" – often