代溝英語(yǔ)作文3篇
代溝英語(yǔ)作文1
Many people all say "three years old, a generation gap", if there is a generation gap between two people, thought the difference is very big, subject also can not pull together, not to mention what the "heart".
But in my opinion, it seems that is not the case.
Take the parents, many people think we are worth adolescence, don't want to talk with your parents.Although sometimes argue with their parents shouted: "there is a gap really cannot communicate!"But wait until the in the mind is calm, I prefer to talk to them.I like to share with them around the fun, complain about some useless things, they will and I share the fun in working, unit, we will also crazy, laughing from time to time, we also sometimes for a certain behavior or things in a debate on the dining table...These, is sweet and happy.
To relatives, for one, many people think that would be no words don't talk about between brothers and sisters.But for my cousin, I am very "weak".
I want to discuss with him on some music, and he tell me the things on the military.He asked me: "do you know XXX officer?"I shook his head, he asked: "do you know some kind of gun?"I shook his head, he will ask: "do you know some ships?"I continued to shake head.He is helpless, more helpless, I feel want to find a topic to chat all can't find it.I tried to call him to listen to some I think good songs, he cried "ah" to keep shake head, sometimes I even in thought, the grade that I have so bad?Germany's so-and-so to listen before he said, I feel the people seem to be poured a pot of cold water.He was disappointed, I am more disappointed.Only two years, what great generation gap?
"Generation gap" is not a precise definition, but according to the interest in personality between people.May even classmate, also there is the so-called "generation gap"!So might as well open the heart window, listen to the opinions of others, will also get a lot of.
代溝英語(yǔ)作文2
Mother doesn't like me some entertainment shows like, but never against it.Only after I see it with a straight face, make my puzzling, overwhelmed.
On a weekend night, I see hope English thought, anyway, today is the weekend, watching watching TV has nothing to do at all.Then press the remote control, change the channel.When I change to hunan, was immediately impressed by the content of the inside, how it can be mom?I jumped off the couch, like a thief crept gently walked to the room maid, for fear that mom is asleep and I was awakened by and break into a furious rage.In the mother's room, he found the ha!Mom is asleep.In my heart a piece of rock falls, long heaved a sigh of relief, feel at ease ground to watch the TV."Happy camp" is too good, not for a moment, I smiled turned upside down, no attention paid to disturb my mother was standing by me in the corner and looked at me.
Wait me smile to abdominal pain, lost my voice, and discovered the corner of the mouth dry mom staring at me like staring at an enemy, that twinkle at ordinary times, terror, and now more terrorist eyes to my uniform, let I fear, panic."You gave me in the eyes of the master issued orders to me, I had to obediently followed in her mother.
"From then on, I won't allow you to have any contact with" entertainment variety show ", including the idol drama!"Mother said on staring at me.Under such harsh glare who dared to protest?I dare not, anyway, this is the generation gap between *s and children.
In fact, no need any *s against our watch variety shows, because this is our the best comfort in a week of hard study.Although schools have implemented "burden", many parents are therefore implemented "plus negative", we shoulder the burden heavier.
Perhaps this is the generation gap.
代溝英語(yǔ)作文3
Nowadays, there is often a lack of understanding between parents and children. Children always complain that their parents are out of date, while parents can’t approve of what their children say and do. Thus, a big generation gap is formed.
如今,往往是缺乏了解父母與子女之間。孩子們總是抱怨他們的父母都是過(guò)時(shí)的,而父母并不贊同他們的孩子說(shuō)的和做的。因此,形成一個(gè)大的代溝。
The gap remains wide for many reasons. Children want to be free to choose their own friends, select their own classes in school, plan their own future, earn and spend their own money, and generally run their own life in a more independent way than many parents allow. Also, young children wish to be understood by their parents, but most parents don’t quite understand their children. They regard it as their responsibility to teach their offspring traditional beliefs. They want them to be obedient and do well in school. Therefore, misunderstanding often arise from parents’ tendency to interfere in children’s daily activities.
產(chǎn)生代溝的原因有很多。孩子們想要**的選擇自己的朋友,選擇在學(xué)校自己的班級(jí),規(guī)劃自己的未來(lái),自己掙錢(qián)自己花,和一般運(yùn)行自己的更**的生活方式比父母允許的。同時(shí),年輕的孩子們希望能夠得到父母的,但大多數(shù)父母不太了解他們的孩子。他們認(rèn)為這是他們教他們的`后代的傳統(tǒng)信仰的責(zé)任。他們想讓他們聽(tīng)話,在學(xué)校做得很好。因此,誤解往往從父母傾向于干涉孩子的日常活動(dòng)。
In my opinion, most problems between parents and children could be solved by joint efforts of both sides to enhance mutual understanding.
在我看來(lái),父母和子女間的代溝問(wèn)題可以通過(guò)雙方的共同努力,增進(jìn)相互理解的解決。
代溝英語(yǔ)作文3篇擴(kuò)展閱讀
代溝英語(yǔ)作文3篇(擴(kuò)展1)
——代溝的英語(yǔ)作文3篇
代溝的英語(yǔ)作文1
How to Bridge the Generation Gap?
The generation gap is unavoidable in almost every family, which brings about a number of conflicts in a family. In my opinion, to limit the bad effects of the generation gap, each family should use the following three methods:
First of all, it is important that family members discuss openly about their pleasures or sadness in childhood in family gatherings. This activity does not only create a close relationship but also help build up understanding among all members. For instance, once children are aware that their grandparents and even their parents did not have a good upbringing during their hard childhood, they will stop plaining about the previous generations’ obsoleteness. In the meantime, once old people realize young people are nurtured in a new modern way, it is easy for them to be tolerant of young people’s new habits or hobbies.
Secondly, people of each generation should not develop a very high feeling about themselves. In order to do that, they should not think that they are the only right people in their family because each person has his or her own limitations. Teenagers would realize that their parents have to struggle with pain to support them financially, and they would stop rebelling their strictness. Parents would realize that their children’s new style does no harm to their studies and stop imposing their own unsuitable standards on their children.
Finally, the generation gap and its bad effects can be limited if all members cooperate to build up a close-knit family relationship and a harmonious atmosphere in which they are open and tolerant of each other. I strongly believe that each family, by doing that, can enjoy a cozy atmosphere with minimum interference by the generation gap.
如何讓彌合代溝?
大部分的家庭免不了存在代溝,代溝給一個(gè)家庭帶來(lái)很多沖突。我認(rèn)為,為了**代溝的不良影響,每個(gè)家庭都就應(yīng)嘗試以下方法:
首先,在家庭聚會(huì)的時(shí)候,家庭成員公開(kāi)討論自我的童年時(shí)期的快樂(lè)或悲傷是很重要的。這一活動(dòng)不僅僅營(yíng)造一種緊密的關(guān)系而且能夠幫忙建立家庭成員之間的相互理解。比如說(shuō),一旦孩子們意識(shí)到他們的爺爺奶奶甚至是爸爸媽媽在艱苦的童年時(shí)期沒(méi)有很好的成長(zhǎng),他們就會(huì)停止抱怨上一代人的陳舊思想。同時(shí),一旦老一輩人意識(shí)到年輕人是在一種新的現(xiàn)代方式下成長(zhǎng),他們就很容易理解年輕人的習(xí)慣和愛(ài)好。
其次,每一代人都不就應(yīng)高估自我。為此,他們不就應(yīng)認(rèn)為他們是家里唯一對(duì)的人,因?yàn)槊總(gè)人都有自我的極限。青少年就應(yīng)意識(shí)到,他們的父母務(wù)必與困苦**給他們帶給經(jīng)濟(jì)上的**,他們就會(huì)停止反抗父母的嚴(yán)厲。父母也就應(yīng)意識(shí)到,孩子們的新風(fēng)格不會(huì)影響學(xué)習(xí),從而停止把自我不適宜的吧標(biāo)準(zhǔn)強(qiáng)加在孩子身上。
最后,如果所有的成員合作起來(lái)去建立一個(gè)關(guān)系緊密的家庭關(guān)系以及能夠坦誠(chéng)和互相容忍融洽的氛圍,代溝及其不良影響就能夠得到限制。我堅(jiān)信,透過(guò)這樣做,每個(gè)家庭都能享有一個(gè)代溝干擾最小的舒適氛圍。
代溝的英語(yǔ)作文2
Nowadays, the problems of generation gap bee more and more serious. The poor relationship between parents and their children is very mon. Are these problems caused by the busy parents? Or, do the harsh family rules affect the relationship of parents and children?
Firstly, in most of the families in China both of the parents have to go out for work in order to earn more money to provide better environment for their lovely children. Unfortunately, this causes the rare munication between them and theft children, since these parents always take rest during leisure time. These parents and children cannot know dee* about each other and friction will appear. Secondly, parents who ask their children to be absolutely obedient is also one of the grave causes of the generation gap between them! They do not try to municate with their children as their equals. Thus, misinterpretation of them may easily occur.
To solve these problems, the busy parents should sacrifice their spare time to municate with their children actively and friendly to improve their relation. At the same time, they can also observe their childrens behavior at the same time in order to understand heir childrens personality as it can reduce the quarrel between them. Besides that, the parents should try to give up their absolute power in family so as lo make their children feel free to chat with them.
代溝的英語(yǔ)作文3
代溝之我見(jiàn)My View on Generation Gap
According to the variety of social background, personal experience and personal emotion, differernt people have different opinions towards things. Thus, there is no doubt that generation gap exists everywhere. We always find that there are big differences between us and the old generation. We always regard the old are outdated, while they think us are crazy. They can’t bear the dress we like, the fashion we pursue or even our childish thinking. Instead, we could put up with their standpat thingking and their “feudal rulers”. Thus, the generation gap bees more and more obvious and serious. However, why don’t we realize that opinions can be changed, while people can’t. So, we can think in an other way, learn to accept. It is certain that we can narrow the generation gap to live a more harmonious life.
由于社會(huì)背景,個(gè)人的經(jīng)歷和個(gè)人情感的不一樣,不一樣的人對(duì)事情有不一樣的看法。因此,毫無(wú)疑問(wèn)代溝隨處可見(jiàn)。 我們總是發(fā)現(xiàn)我們和老一代之間有很大的差異。我們總是認(rèn)為他們思想守舊,而他們卻覺(jué)得我們瘋狂。他們不能忍受我們喜歡的衣服,我們追求的時(shí)尚甚至是我們幼稚的思維方式。相反,我們覺(jué)得他們思想保守,“封建**”。因此,代溝越來(lái)越明顯和嚴(yán)重。但是,為什么我們沒(méi)有意識(shí)到想法是能夠改變的,而人卻是不能夠的。所以,我們能夠嘗試換位思考,學(xué)會(huì)去理解。能夠肯定的是,我們能夠縮小代溝過(guò)上更**的生活。
代溝英語(yǔ)作文3篇(擴(kuò)展2)
——代溝之我見(jiàn)英語(yǔ)作文3篇
代溝之我見(jiàn)英語(yǔ)作文1
A few years ago it was fashionable to speak of a generation gap. Parents complained that children didn't show them proper respect and obedience, while children complained that their parents didn't understand them at all. Many critics argue that it is built into the fabric of our society.
One cause of the generation gap is the opportunity that young people have to choose their own life. In traditional socieries, children live in the same area as their parents, marry people their parents know and approve of, and often continue the family occupation. In our society, people often move out of the home at an early age, marry or live with people their parents have never met, and choose occupations that are rather different.
In our upwardly mobile society, parents often expect their children to be better than them. However, these ambitions for their children are another cause of the pision between them. Often they discover that they have very little in common.
Finally, the speed of change in our society is another cause of it. In a traditional culture, people are valued for their wisdom, but in our society the knowledge of a lifetime may become out of date. The young and the old seem to live in two very different worlds, separated by different skills and abilities.
No doubt, the generation gap will continue to be a feature of our life for some time to come. Its causes are rooted in the freedoms and opportunities of our society, and in the rapid pace at which society changes.
【譯文】
幾年前,代溝是一個(gè)非常流行的詞。父母抱怨孩子對(duì)他們沒(méi)有應(yīng)有的尊重和服從;而孩子們卻抱怨父母根本不理解他們。很多批評(píng)家指出,這成為了我們社會(huì)結(jié)構(gòu)的組成部分。
造成代溝的原因之一,是現(xiàn)在年輕人對(duì)自己的生活有了更多的機(jī)會(huì)進(jìn)行選擇。傳統(tǒng)的社會(huì)里,孩子和他們的父母生活在同一個(gè)地方,與父母認(rèn)識(shí)并認(rèn)可的人結(jié)婚,常常幾代人做著同樣的工作。而在現(xiàn)代的社會(huì)中,人們年輕時(shí)就離開(kāi)家,他們的結(jié)婚對(duì)象可能父母從來(lái)沒(méi)見(jiàn)過(guò),他們選擇的職業(yè)也與祖輩大相徑庭。
在這個(gè)人往高處發(fā)展的社會(huì),父母總是盼望著孩子能比自己過(guò)得好。然而這種對(duì)孩子的期望也是造成他們之間分歧的另一個(gè)原因。其結(jié)果常常是發(fā)現(xiàn)父母和孩子之間共同之處很少。
最后,現(xiàn)代社會(huì)的飛速變化也是形成代溝的一個(gè)原因。傳統(tǒng)社會(huì)里,人們往往以智慧來(lái)衡量一個(gè)人。而現(xiàn)在,一種知識(shí)用一生的觀點(diǎn)已經(jīng)過(guò)時(shí)了。不同的`技術(shù),不同的能力,將年輕人和年長(zhǎng)的人劃入兩個(gè)完全不同的世界。
毫無(wú)疑問(wèn),在今后相當(dāng)一段時(shí)間里,代溝將會(huì)繼續(xù)成為我們生活的一個(gè)特征。它產(chǎn)生的原因源于社會(huì)的**和選擇,源于社會(huì)日新月異的快速發(fā)展。
代溝之我見(jiàn)英語(yǔ)作文2
In the modern socienty,there is misunderstanding between parents and their children.The parents always consider that their children do the wrong things, and their children always complain, their parents don't understand them,which leads to the generation gap.
There are two reasons. First the young man live in different environments from their parents', so they alway have different ideas aboutproblems. Secondly the parents alway prevent their children from doing their favourite things which often cause a fight.
I think the generation gap can be handled if the parents and childrentry their best. They can have open talks and tell ideas to each other. They should realize every generation have their own strong and weak points.Only in this way,a better relationship will be built.
代溝之我見(jiàn)英語(yǔ)作文3
Nowadays,many young people have new ideas which are different from their parents. They argue even fight with their parents from time to time only because they wouldn’t like to do what their parents want to. In my opinions, children and their parents should understand and respect each other, so There are many reasons for this phenomenon. Firstly, young people have different lifestyle, different education and different friends from their parents, different age will shape a new generation. Secondly, the young are still too young to face the society but they don’t realize, so they often think whatever they do is right, which leads them not listen to their parents’ some useful and valuable advice. Finally, some parents only order children to do something rather than discuss with them.
As far as I’m concern, everybody should join hands to solve this problem. Both sides should respect the other, when parents have more communications with the young, many conflicts will not happen. Similarly,if children can understand their parents’ original intention,they will not always opposite their parents。
代溝英語(yǔ)作文3篇(擴(kuò)展3)
——父母代溝英語(yǔ)作文 (菁選3篇)
父母代溝英語(yǔ)作文1
According to the variety of social background, personal experience and personal emotion, differernt people have different opinions towards things. Thus, there is no doubt that generation gap exists everywhere. We always find that there are big differences between us and the old generation. We always regard the old are outdated, while they think us are crazy. They can’t bear the dress we like, the fashion we pursue or even our childish thinking. Instead, we could put up with their standpat thingking and their “feudal rulers”. Thus, the generation gap becomes more and more obvious and serious. However, why don’t we realize that opinions can be changed, while people can’t. So, we can think in an other way, learn to accept. It is certain that we can narrow the generation gap to live a more harmonious life.
由于社會(huì)背景,個(gè)人的經(jīng)歷和個(gè)人情感的不同,不同的人對(duì)事情有不同的看法。因此,毫無(wú)疑問(wèn)代溝隨處可見(jiàn)。 我們總是發(fā)現(xiàn)我們和老一代之間有很大的差異。我們總是認(rèn)為他們思想守舊,而他們卻覺(jué)得我們瘋狂。他們不能忍受我們喜歡的衣服,我們追求的時(shí)尚甚至是我們幼稚的思維方式。相反,我們覺(jué)得他們思想保守,“封建**”。因此,代溝越來(lái)越明顯和嚴(yán)重。但是,為什么我們沒(méi)有意識(shí)到想法是可以改變的,而人卻是不可以的。所以,我們可以嘗試換位思考,學(xué)會(huì)去接受?梢钥隙ǖ氖,我們可以縮小代溝過(guò)上更**的生活。
父母代溝英語(yǔ)作文2
Nowadays, there is often a lack of understanding between parents and children. Children always complain that their parents are out of date, while parents can’t approve of what their children say and do. Thus, a big generation gap is formed.
如今,往往是缺乏了解父母與子女之間。孩子們總是抱怨他們的父母都是過(guò)時(shí)的,而父母并不贊同他們的孩子說(shuō)的和做的。因此,形成一個(gè)大的代溝。
The gap remains wide for many reasons. Children want to be free to choose their own friends, select their own classes in school, plan their own future, earn and spend their own money, and generally run their own life in a more independent way than many parents allow. Also, young children wish to be understood by their parents, but most parents don’t quite understand their children. They regard it as their responsibility to teach their offspring traditional beliefs. They want them to be obedient and do well in school. Therefore, misunderstanding often arise from parents’ tendency to interfere in children’s daily activities.
產(chǎn)生代溝的原因有很多。孩子們想要**的選擇自己的朋友,選擇在學(xué)校自己的班級(jí),規(guī)劃自己的未來(lái),自己掙錢(qián)自己花,和一般運(yùn)行自己的更**的生活方式比父母允許的。同時(shí),年輕的孩子們希望能夠得到父母的,但大多數(shù)父母不太了解他們的孩子。他們認(rèn)為這是他們教他們的后代的傳統(tǒng)信仰的責(zé)任。他們想讓他們聽(tīng)話,在學(xué)校做得很好。因此,誤解往往從父母傾向于干涉孩子的日;顒(dòng)。
In my opinion, most problems between parents and children could be solved by joint efforts of both sides to enhance mutual understanding.
在我看來(lái),父母和子女間的代溝問(wèn)題可以通過(guò)雙方的共同努力,增進(jìn)相互理解的'解決。
父母代溝英語(yǔ)作文3
Every new generation is different from the one that preceded it . Today the difference is very marked indeed.
Old people are always saying that the young are not what they were . The same comment is made from generation to generation and it is always true . It has never been truer than it is today . The young are better educated . They have a lot more money to spend and enjoy more freedom . They grow up quickly and are not so dependent on their parents . They think more of themselves and do not blindly accept the idea of their elders . Even which the older generation remembers vividly are nothing more than past history .
Just look at the teenage girls who scream hysterically over the pop stars and the teenage boys who copy the stars and grow their hair long and are no longer ashamed of wearing “pretty”clothes , are sim* breaking through the Chinese traditional reserve and fear of showing their feelings . what is more, nowadays most boys and girls are good companions and some of them even fall in“puppy love .”a lot of older people sigh and say ,“we did not use to do like this .”
Do you think the older people’s criticism stems from jealousy just because they could not or did not behave in the same way when they were young ?
代溝英語(yǔ)作文3篇(擴(kuò)展4)
——論代溝的英語(yǔ)作文5篇
論代溝的英語(yǔ)作文1
Nowadays, the problems of generation gap become more and more serious. The poor relationship between parents and their children is very common. Are these problems caused by the busy parents? Or, do the harsh family rules affect the relationship of parents and children?
Firstly, in most of the families in China both of the parents have to go out for work in order to earn more money to provide better environment for their lovely children. Unfortunately, this causes the rare communication between them and theft children, since these parents always take rest during leisure time. These parents and children cannot know dee* about each other and friction will appear. Secondly, parents who ask their children to be absolutely obedient is also one of the grave causes of the generation gap between them! They do not try to communicate with their children as their equals. Thus, misinterpretation of them may easily occur.
To solve these problems, the busy parents should sacrifice their spare time to communicate with their children actively and friendly to improve their relation. At the same time, they can also observe their childrens behavior at the same time in order to understand heir childrens personality as it can reduce the quarrel between them. Besides that, the parents should try to give up their absolute power in family so as lo make their children feel free to chat with them.
論代溝的英語(yǔ)作文2
Accordingto the variety of social background, personal experience and personal emotion,differernt people have different opinions towards things. Thus, there is nodoubt that generation gap exists everywhere. We always find that there are bigdifferences between us and the old generation. We always regard the old areoutdated, while they think us are crazy. They can’t bear the dress we like, thefashion we pursue or even our childish thinking. Instead, we could put up withtheir standpat thingking and their “feudal rulers”.
Thus, the generation gapbecomes more and more obvious and serious. However, why don’t we realize that opinionscan be changed, while people can’t. So, we can think in an other way, learn toaccept. It is certain that we can narrow the generation gap to live a more harmoniouslife.
論代溝的英語(yǔ)作文3
In the modern socienty,there is misunderstanding between parents and their children.The parents always consider that their children do the wrong things, and their children always complain, their parents don't understand them,which leads to the generation gap.
There are two reasons. First the young man live in different environments from their parents', so they alway have different ideas aboutproblems. Secondly the parents alway prevent their children from doing their favourite things which often cause a fight.
I think the generation gap can be handled if the parents and childrentry their best. They can have open talks and tell ideas to each other. They should realize every generation have their own strong and weak points.Only in this way,a better relationship will be built.
在現(xiàn)代當(dāng)前,父母和孩子之間有誤解。父母總是認(rèn)為他們的孩子做錯(cuò)了事情,和他們的孩子總是抱怨,他們的父母不理解他們,這導(dǎo)致了代溝。
有兩個(gè)原因。首先,年輕人從他們的父母生活在不同的環(huán)境中,所以他們總是有不同的想法關(guān)于問(wèn)題。其次父母總是阻止孩子們做他們喜歡的事往往造成打擊。
我認(rèn)為代溝是可以處理的,如果父母和孩子他們最好的。他們可以打開(kāi)對(duì)話,告訴彼此的想法。他們應(yīng)該意識(shí)到每一代人都有自己的強(qiáng)大和弱點(diǎn)。只有用這種方法,將建造一個(gè)更好的關(guān)系。
論代溝的英語(yǔ)作文4
A complex problem –generation gap Nowadays,“generation gap”has gradually become a common phenomenon all over the world. Experiencing different time, as a result, causes the difference between parents and children in tastes, the method they deal with problems and values.
This case may more easily happen in teenagers. The reason lies in they are young, they have strong passion for freedom, and they like showing themselves off. Then it is no wonder that arguments often arise between their parents and them, which always make the parents worried. They can hardly figure out what their children are thinking about. Because they wear strange clothes, listen noisy music and even walk around town with tattoos and pierces all over their bodies. Nevertheless, in teenager’ eyes, their parents are out of date and conservative. They may talk with their friends more often than their parents. In a word, ‘generation gap’ is an interminable problem.
Seriously, how to bridge the generation gap? In my opinion, first, show respect. The mutual respect can play an important role in avoiding conflicts. Second, listen more than talk. It’s no doubt that it is a very efficient way to keep the conversation
longer. At last, keep humors, this can make the talk friendly.
Despite the fact that parents may be worried about the generation gap between their children and themselves. But as we all know, with time going by, children gradually grow old and ripe. And then they will come to understand their parents.
論代溝的英語(yǔ)作文5
Parents say that children do not show them proper respect and obedience, while children complain that their parents do not understand them. This
phenomenon is often referred as the generation gap. What are the causes of the generation gap?
One important cause of the generation gap is that young people have to
choose their way of life. In more traditional societies, when children grow up, they are expected to live in the same area as their parents, to marry people that their parents know and agree to, and to continue the family occupation. In modern society, young people often travel a great distance for their education, move out of the family at an early age, marry or live with people whom their parents have never met, and choose occupations different from those of their parents.
In the easily changing society, parents often expect their children to do better than they did: to find better jobs, to make more money; and to do all the things that they were unable to do. Often, however, the strong desire that parents have for their children are another cause of the disagreement between them. Often, they discover that they have very little in comMon with each other. Finally, the speed at which changes take place in modern society is another cause of the gap between the generations. In a traditional culture, elderly
people are valued for their wisdom, but in modern society, the knowledge of a lifetime may become out of date overnight. The young and the old seem to live in two very different worlds, separated by different skills and abilities.
No doubt, the generation gap will continue to be a future of our life for some time to come. Its causes are rooted in the changes of our society, and in the rapid speed at which society changes.
代溝英語(yǔ)作文3篇(擴(kuò)展5)
——代溝作文優(yōu)秀3篇
代溝作文優(yōu)秀1
昨天,我爸爸媽媽又訓(xùn)斥我了,始終不明白,本來(lái)懷這滿心的歡喜回家過(guò)元宵,卻被爸爸媽**倆句話搞的沒(méi)有一點(diǎn)心情。
原來(lái),元宵節(jié)很快就到了,而在學(xué)校幾天的我并不想回家,但是倆個(gè)姐姐過(guò)了元宵節(jié)就走了,倆個(gè)姐姐在外面很少回家,今年好不容易過(guò)個(gè)團(tuán)圓年,想回家與倆個(gè)姐姐再過(guò)個(gè)元宵節(jié)。
本來(lái)14號(hào)就放假了,14號(hào)準(zhǔn)備回家時(shí)遇到小學(xué)的一個(gè)同學(xué),現(xiàn)在也在城里上學(xué),他讓我等他和他一起回家,我不好意思拒絕,便在他的住處等他,等到天黑沒(méi)有見(jiàn)他回來(lái),我往他加里打個(gè)電話,卻告知他吧我忘了,自己回家了,我非常治喪回到學(xué)校寢室便倒頭就睡。
第二天中午會(huì)到家時(shí)家人在吃午飯,爺爺奶奶見(jiàn)到我很高興,沒(méi)想到爸爸媽媽見(jiàn)到我就一幅臉色上來(lái)了,見(jiàn)我就訓(xùn)斥,說(shuō)笑利昨天就回家了。我正欲解釋,爸爸媽媽卻會(huì)屋里看電視啊,倆個(gè)姐姐無(wú)奈聳聳肩。我無(wú)奈地嘆了口氣,唉,這種無(wú)語(yǔ)的生活我早就習(xí)慣了。
到了晚上,欣賞完煙花后,和大姐爬在一起看照片,談理想,談姐姐將來(lái)的男友,談的無(wú)比融洽,大姐雖然20歲了,但是我們倆在一起還是像倆個(gè)長(zhǎng)不大的孩子,好象有說(shuō)不完的話語(yǔ)。但我和爸爸媽媽呢?為什么會(huì)是這樣?難道就是因?yàn)槲沂亲,他們是父嗎?難道我和父母之間的這個(gè)“溝”永遠(yuǎn)不能被親情的“泥土”填滿嗎?
哇!乖弟弟,快看啊,外面的月光好好漂亮喲!二姐的話在我耳邊想起?墒,我竟然沒(méi)有一點(diǎn)心情去欣賞這美好的月夜!
再美的月光有什么用啊,明天有是一個(gè)分離的時(shí)候。
代溝作文優(yōu)秀2
在學(xué)校舉行的“四愛(ài)”教育演講會(huì)上,鄒老師說(shuō):“在麥當(dāng)勞里,當(dāng)你們吃著漢堡,啃著雞翅時(shí),你們的父母只是坐在一旁看你們吃,他們說(shuō):‘我們不吃。’孩子們,你們真的以為是他們不愛(ài)吃嗎?他們是讓給你們吃。∧銈兿胂肟矗銈兌枷矚g吃的東西,父母怎么會(huì)不愛(ài)吃呢?”老師說(shuō)得的確屬實(shí),但在我媽身上卻是個(gè)例外。我笑著問(wèn)坐在身邊的媽:“你愛(ài)吃麥當(dāng)勞嗎?”媽說(shuō):“呵,我可沒(méi)騙你,我真的不愛(ài)吃那東西,那股味道我可受不了。你知道的,我只喜歡吃麥當(dāng)勞里的脆皮甜筒!蔽倚α耍耶(dāng)然知道。其實(shí)我真的很了解她。
她不吃糖,不碰牛肉、羊肉等味重的東西,喜歡吃生黃瓜、生***、胡蘿卜、生地瓜和類似蝦、螃蟹、扇貝這類的海鮮。她受我的影響極愛(ài)吃肉串,有時(shí)還會(huì)抿兩口啤酒。她從不喝牛奶,說(shuō)那有種令她惡心的味道,她寧愿用豆?jié){取代牛奶。她騙不了我,我太了解她。
我和媽媽之間似乎不存在代溝。我不喜歡聽(tīng)歌,不追求時(shí)尚,我是個(gè)被“流行”一腳踹開(kāi)的落伍之人,單憑這一點(diǎn),代溝就難以形成。媽媽喜歡民族唱法和美聲唱法,于是,在她的熏陶下,我知道了喜歡把頭發(fā)高高挽起,殷秀梅喜歡穿袖口極大的蓬蓬裙,戴玉強(qiáng)喜歡“唱不露齒”……
媽媽從不搽脂抹粉,對(duì)此,我曾感不滿,為什么人家媽媽都花枝招展,只有我媽媽素面朝天?漸漸,我明白了,我要的媽媽不是模特,我要的是愛(ài)。現(xiàn)在想想,樸實(shí)、自然的媽媽才會(huì)令人倍感溫暖與親切。看看我左邊那位厚粉濃妝,一副神圣不可侵犯的“王室貴族”,再看我右邊和藹可親,正與別人談笑風(fēng)生的媽,我不禁釋然許多。
媽說(shuō):“我喜歡銀色的小轎車!蔽艺f(shuō):“行!我以后給你買(mǎi)!薄澳氵得給我買(mǎi)套房子!薄皼](méi)問(wèn)題,你喜歡住哪兒?**?還是上海?”“城市倒無(wú)所謂,只要靠湖就行。別忘了,一定要?jiǎng)e墅,不是別墅我可不住哦!”我笑了,說(shuō):“好,以后一定讓你每天從自家別墅的車庫(kù)里開(kāi)出銀色轎車,把全市的湖看個(gè)遍!”
代溝作文優(yōu)秀3
我和爸爸之間,似乎有一條不可跨越的代溝,我怕一走近就會(huì)立刻陷下去。我很迷茫,這到底是一條什么樣的代溝呢?我不知道。也許這是一條時(shí)代的代溝。我曾經(jīng)很喜歡周杰倫,做作業(yè)時(shí)聽(tīng)他的歌,晚上睡覺(jué)也聽(tīng)著他的歌入睡。但我不敢明目張膽地聽(tīng),我怕爸爸會(huì)罵。他認(rèn)為全世界的好女孩只有一種,就是好好學(xué)習(xí),不像男生那樣瘋玩。也許這是一條語(yǔ)言的代溝,從小我就喜歡用普通話進(jìn)行溝通,甚至忘了怎么講方言。而爸爸**不高,有時(shí),同他講話時(shí),我會(huì)不時(shí)地加上一些普通話,而爸爸總很茫然的'樣子。我們倆心里都很明白。所以,我從不會(huì)主動(dòng)跟他說(shuō)話,出來(lái)急需要錢(qián)時(shí)。
每天都是媽媽送我上學(xué),可是今天卻下起了大暴雨,如果坐在摩托車上肯定會(huì)濕透的,媽媽對(duì)爸爸說(shuō):“今天你送一下斌斌吧。”我和爸爸對(duì)視了一下,爸爸一直沒(méi)說(shuō)話,應(yīng)該是默許了。我跟著爸爸來(lái)到車前,這是我小時(shí)候玩耍的“好玩具”,可是,現(xiàn)在我對(duì)它卻如此陌生。我利索地**車,生在車?yán),感覺(jué)特別溫馨,似乎回到了小時(shí)候。可是這只是幻想,不是現(xiàn)實(shí)。車穿梭在街道上,我和爸爸沒(méi)有說(shuō)一句話,我呆呆地望著雨從窗前落下,我想要是這個(gè)畫(huà)面定格下來(lái)有多好!
到了學(xué)校,我下了車,在關(guān)車門(mén)的那一剎那,我鬼使神差地說(shuō)了一句:“老爸,路上小心心。”爸爸愣了好一會(huì),才說(shuō):“嗯,好好學(xué)習(xí)!蔽易约阂层读耍V癡地走進(jìn)學(xué)校。這是我?guī)啄陙?lái)第一次主動(dòng)跟爸爸說(shuō)話,而爸爸,也是第一次回答我的話。
在這條代溝邊,我小心翼翼地向前跨了一步……
代溝英語(yǔ)作文3篇(擴(kuò)展6)
——代溝優(yōu)秀作文3篇
代溝優(yōu)秀作文1
正在提筆寫(xiě)著作業(yè),便吹來(lái)一陣莫名的感想,人活著,是為了什么?為什么而我活著,卻不能做自己想做的。
今年已經(jīng)16歲了,我很疑惑,到底我活著,是為了做什么。難道就是為了生存在這個(gè)世界完成父母的心愿?難道就一定要為此而放棄自己的夢(mèng)想?
我正在房間做作業(yè)。然而心里卻迫不及待想著去練歌,寫(xiě)作。但是為了能去,也只能先專心致志的地做著。
“你姐姐一天到晚唱歌,你也開(kāi)始了是不是,她想考音樂(lè)大學(xué)我是不允許的,必須給我報(bào)軍校。考不上軍校也得給我考另外的。”
即使是很專心的地把心思投入在作業(yè)上,卻聽(tīng)見(jiàn)外面的爸爸指責(zé)妹妹。是的,爸爸曾經(jīng)一直希望我考軍校,但是,這個(gè)要求,我不能做到。但是,爸爸仍然抱著這個(gè)愿望不曾放棄,很久,已經(jīng)沒(méi)有提起這個(gè)問(wèn)題,現(xiàn)在又源源不斷的地提了出來(lái)。妹妹呢,和我一樣,都熱衷于音樂(lè),卻連連遭到爸爸的反對(duì)。我想過(guò),為什么爸爸會(huì)不同意?可又不敢問(wèn)問(wèn)他。我知道現(xiàn)在的我對(duì)爸爸極其的不滿,因?yàn)樗麖膩?lái)不尊重我的想法。
16歲的自己,也應(yīng)該有了自己的想法了吧。但是,做什么都需要經(jīng)過(guò)爸爸的同意。我家中有個(gè)妹妹,學(xué)習(xí)不怎么好,因此,希望都只寄托在我的身上,于是,我失去了很多**與快樂(lè)。在學(xué)校里,我總能展現(xiàn)自己開(kāi)朗的一面,而在家中,是沉重的功課再加上沉重的功課。如山的作業(yè)中有很大一部分就是爸爸施來(lái)的壓力。
今天天氣很冷,雨颯颯的.,風(fēng)也颯颯的。聽(tīng)到那句話的我真的有很多壓力,我不想放棄自己的夢(mèng),也不想讓爸爸失望,雖然他給我施加壓力,但畢竟,他是我的父親,我是他的希望。我該怎么辦呢?
代溝英語(yǔ)作文3篇(擴(kuò)展7)
——代溝的作文3篇
代溝的作文1
進(jìn)入親春期后,我們生命又奏響了全新的樂(lè)章。我們于父母的關(guān)系也發(fā)生了變化,出現(xiàn)了溝通上的困難。我們總在抱怨“父母越來(lái)越不理解我們”,而父母也在感嘆“孩子越來(lái)越難以管教”。大多數(shù)人會(huì)與父母產(chǎn)生不同程度的誤解、分歧,甚至隔閡、矛盾與沖突。
心理學(xué)家和社會(huì)學(xué)家把兩代人之間的矛盾和沖突稱為“代溝”或“代際沖突”。**社會(huì)學(xué)家瑪格麗特·米德在一本名叫《代溝》的書(shū)中指出:“整個(gè)世界處于一個(gè)前所未有的局面之中,青年人和老年人,青少年和所有比他們年長(zhǎng)的人,隔著一條深溝在互相相望……” 這些問(wèn)題的出現(xiàn)有多方面的原因。
進(jìn)入青春期,我們開(kāi)始朦朧地意識(shí)到自己正在變成“大人”;我們對(duì)自己的言行和內(nèi)心世界表現(xiàn)出越來(lái)越多的關(guān)注,自我意識(shí)和自尊心不斷增強(qiáng);我們對(duì)**的依賴越來(lái)越少,**性越來(lái)越強(qiáng)。 我們不再像過(guò)去那樣把父母看成是至高無(wú)上、無(wú)所不知的,而是逐步用批判的眼光看待父母。我們強(qiáng)烈希望并嘗試與父母建立*等的關(guān)系。我們不再一味地依賴父母,被動(dòng)地接受他們的干預(yù)、指導(dǎo),而是開(kāi)始**地思考問(wèn)題,自主地解決問(wèn)題。
但是,很多父母仍然把我們方程不懂事的“小孩兒”。因此,我們與父母之間就產(chǎn)生了各種誤解、分歧、隔閡,甚至產(chǎn)生矛盾與沖突。
由于我們與父母在知識(shí)水*、思想觀念、行為方式等方面存在差異,因此對(duì)同一個(gè)問(wèn)題的看法、態(tài)度不一定相同,這是雙方矛盾產(chǎn)生的重要原因。
我們?cè)趯W(xué)習(xí)和生活上遇到困難時(shí),很愿意求助父母和老師。但是,遇到心理困惑,可能更愿意向同伴傾訴。我們與同伴之間越來(lái)越密切的關(guān)系也可能使我們與父母的親情變得相對(duì)疏遠(yuǎn)。
在這個(gè)時(shí)期,我們往往會(huì)以執(zhí)拗的、對(duì)立的、反抗的心態(tài)對(duì)待婦女。這又加劇了我們與父母治療的矛盾和沖突。 父母與子女之間的“代溝”是客觀存在的,同時(shí)是難以避免的。
代溝的作文2
二十一世紀(jì),我們這些青少年的思想,與我們所敬愛(ài)的上一輩人,永遠(yuǎn)無(wú)法融在一起,似乎沒(méi)有為什么,也不知道為什么。大人們喜歡把他們的思想強(qiáng)加在我們新一輩人的身上,而我們,也必須接受這種“無(wú)理”的思想,如若不接受,也許,在大人的眼睛里,我們的行為就是所謂的叛逆、不懂事、翅膀硬了,可是,你們永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)知道我們心中所想的一切,只能默默地承受這一切,埋藏我們自己的思想,不動(dòng)生色。
我們是這個(gè)時(shí)代的——未來(lái)。我們有自己的夢(mèng)想,我們有自己的未來(lái),我們有我們自己的生活要過(guò),這一切,要我們自己去承擔(dān),你們永遠(yuǎn)不能陪伴我們一生,往后的路,還要靠我們自己去走。請(qǐng)你們放開(kāi)你們那寬厚的手,讓我們自己飛翔吧。
時(shí)代在變,生活也在變。不同的時(shí)代,不同的人,有自己的路。親愛(ài)的——爸爸,媽媽,我們長(zhǎng)大了,學(xué)會(huì)走路了,前面坎坷的路,讓我們獨(dú)自面對(duì)吧,十幾年的養(yǎng)育之恩,我們不會(huì)忘記,你們也該休息休息了。
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有人說(shuō):“世界上有種結(jié),叫做心結(jié),難以解開(kāi)。世界上有扇門(mén),叫心扉,難以敞開(kāi)。世界上有條溝,叫代溝,難以逾越!
隨著年齡的增長(zhǎng),我慢慢地步入了成熟,慢慢地長(zhǎng)大了,我再也沒(méi)有和爸爸媽媽一起出去玩過(guò),也再也沒(méi)有時(shí)間和他們一起坐在沙發(fā)上溫馨的看電視了,更不用說(shuō)媽媽晚上悄悄地來(lái)到我的床頭,給我講故事了。媽媽漸漸地不愿和我談心,聽(tīng)我說(shuō)我的心里話了,甚至,不知道從何時(shí)開(kāi)始,爸爸媽媽離我越來(lái)越遠(yuǎn),我想追,卻怎么也追不到了
爸爸媽媽似乎總是看我不順眼,成天地?cái)?shù)落我的不是,把我從頭到尾都要數(shù)落一遍,他們開(kāi)始總喜歡把我去和其他家的孩子攀比,老是在我面前談?wù)撜l(shuí)家的孩子考**重點(diǎn)的高中,重點(diǎn)的大學(xué),人家孩子怎么呢么聰明,呢么自覺(jué)。說(shuō)得我的心情馬上蕩到了低谷。
就這樣,在無(wú)形中,給我增添了許多壓力。我常常覺(jué)得我只是個(gè)學(xué)習(xí)的機(jī)器,只是為了給爸爸媽媽有面子的工具而已,雖然我知道我的想法不對(duì),因?yàn)槟钱吘故俏业母改浮N冶桓改肛?zé)怪的時(shí)候,我很委屈,覺(jué)得自己是最不幸的人?墒,又有誰(shuí)能來(lái)聽(tīng)我訴說(shuō)這些苦衷呢?我有時(shí)候,悄悄地獨(dú)自一人哭過(guò),盡管我知道哭地再傷心也無(wú)濟(jì)于事,可是,往往我大哭一場(chǎng)之后,就覺(jué)得心里舒服多了。
每當(dāng)夜幕降臨的時(shí)候,客廳的燈仍然亮著,但是卻少了我的身影和一份快樂(lè)。當(dāng)我想去客廳倒一杯水,或者休息一會(huì)兒的時(shí)候,馬上就能聽(tīng)到爸爸充滿威嚴(yán)地聲音:“出來(lái)干嗎?快回去讀書(shū)啊!钡任易叱鲩T(mén)的那一刻,那扇門(mén)又緊緊地關(guān)**,留給我的只是一片黑暗。
現(xiàn)在,我上中學(xué)了,知道我和爸爸媽媽都應(yīng)該有屬于自己的房間,在各自休息的時(shí)候,房門(mén)自然可以關(guān)上。但是,我希望爸爸媽媽在關(guān)上房門(mén)的時(shí)候,不要把心靈之門(mén)也關(guān)**。我真的希望,你們有時(shí)候,可以回過(guò)頭來(lái),看看我。
偶然的一次機(jī)會(huì)中,我從網(wǎng)上看到了一段話:“我們必須知道:不是每個(gè)父母都是這樣的,每個(gè)父母都有不同的個(gè)性,我們不可能改變也沒(méi)必要改變。天下父母心是一樣的,他們都無(wú)私的愛(ài)著自己的孩子。但愛(ài)是一把雙刃刀,一但錯(cuò)了方向,就會(huì)變成無(wú)邊的情感暴力。愛(ài)有多深,里面的刀就會(huì)有多鋒利,同時(shí)傷害愛(ài)與被愛(ài)的人。父母不是圣人,**也不能很好地把握愛(ài)的方向和法則,這是可以原諒的.,所以我們不求愛(ài)的正確,只求愛(ài)的無(wú)私。我們仔細(xì)得想想,這個(gè)世界最無(wú)私的愛(ài)就是父母給的,但不一定是最甜的,不一定是最幸福的,不一定是最快樂(lè)的,但這種愛(ài)卻是唯一的。無(wú)論哪一種愛(ài)都是唯一的,都要珍惜的。說(shuō)句不好聽(tīng)得,你的父母死了,最無(wú)私的愛(ài)就沒(méi)了。即使你以后遇到了你的愛(ài)人,那種愛(ài)永遠(yuǎn)取代不了父母的愛(ài)。你可以和我一樣下定義:我和我的父母永遠(yuǎn)是不可調(diào)和的矛盾,但你不能否認(rèn)的是他們是給你最無(wú)私的愛(ài)的人,直要他們活著,這種愛(ài)就一刻都不會(huì)停。我討厭我的父母,但我知道他們的愛(ài)是最無(wú)私的,而且一直享受著,這并不矛盾。記得,愛(ài)不是需要正確的表白,只是需要一顆會(huì)體會(huì)她的心。”
我知道了,面對(duì)父母,我們不能一味地去討厭,去排斥。畢竟,他們是為了我們好,如果,有意見(jiàn)或者心事,可以嘗試去和父母談一下,然而我也希望每個(gè)學(xué)生的父母也能為自己的孩子想一想,換位思考一下,適當(dāng)?shù)淖尯⒆臃潘上骂^腦,這樣的話,我們所謂的代溝,也就自然不會(huì)出現(xiàn)了。
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